If this is as you say, then this couple is 1 step away from divorce. A true married couple desire to be with each other all the time. My best friend is my wife. We have been married 37 years and hope we have another 37 years more. Do you know any married couples that live more like roomates?
Yes, and I think it's very sad. When you married, you married for life. It's good, I guess, that these couples are honoring their vows and not divorcing, but at the same time it seems a shame to live a life like that and not have any romance or spark left in your marriage, doesn't it?
I feel that intimacy and love are extremely important in a marriage. You need to spend time together, not have extramarital affairs, share a bedroom (and share everything else in your life, too) and not spend excessive amounts of time apart.
Anyone who doesn't have it this way, I pity. ;( Try counseling.
My parents have separate bedrooms, but I don't really know about the rest...? They are in their mid-late 60's and still love each other, but I don't know about the sexual part. This living-in-separate-bedrooms thing came about a few years ago, but I know they couldn't agree on a bed and my mom snores. They still go to church together, go on cruises together, and everything else. Mom still does all the cooking and cleaning and dad works on the ranch.
If I had a big enough house, I would LOVE to have my own bedroom. My husband and I are a normal couple, but when it comes time to sleep, I want to sleep. We could still have our time together, but also have the chance to sleep alone when we wanted to.
sure, happens all the time..
for instance.. they still intimate and exclusive but because one SNORES they sleep in different rooms. OR they stay together for the kids but live their lives and romance seperately..
hey its your marriage you define it how works best for the two involved!
Yes I know a couple and its not as easy as that. They basically live together but then again they don't its just weird. I wouldn't recommend it especially since there kids have grown accustom to it.
When this happens they had reached the point of tolerating each other and not loving each other, but it's too much trouble to train someone new and thay don't want to be alone.
I don't know any personally, but that doesn't sound like a productive marriage. Not to mention it doesn't sound like it would be built to last.
it doesn't! you should not be married if u are living like roommates
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