When do you reach the point of asking (or demanding) that your husband get couples counseling with you?

My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years. He lost his job; suffered the loss of 2 close friends; and has had several operations (3 rotator cuff operations). During all this, we have lost our sex life and sense of joy and fun. What do I tell him to get him motivated to get help and see a counselor together?When do you reach the point of asking (or demanding) that your husband get couples counseling with you?
How about you act concerned and not complain and nag, how about talking or just not, everyone deals with things different some are silent till they figure it out then want to talk, let him mourn and grieve his loses but do let him know you are by his side and that youd love for him to share with you , when hes ready, also how long has he been like this? Start planning fun things, walks, picnics, nice dinners and set the atmosphere for conversation and maybe the sex will fall back into place.When do you reach the point of asking (or demanding) that your husband get couples counseling with you?
Find a job or else....
You have to tell him.


Or this is going to go more down the hill.


Know is time you may think that time will fix this but believe me time can really make it worst.





Right know is the perfect time to make things better.


You have to tell him or we do it know or you have to really think about your future.


Because there is 80% cchances it will get worst.
sit down and have a long talk with this man let him know the trouble the two of you are facing letting him know just how much you love all the way and that you could not bear losing him and you would like to seek counseling. Sounds like he could really use some after all that he has suffered. hope this helps you