Curious I tend to be hit on more now that I'm engaged. Why do people find it okay to hit on someone that has already been takenMarried couples is there any truth to this?? Singles do you do this?
Single men don't care if your with someone because they believe that they have something better to offer you. And they don't care about who your with. They just want to know if they have a chance.
It's not about morals. It's about the hot girl they see and that's it.
It's up to you if you choose to do anything about it.Married couples is there any truth to this?? Singles do you do this?
they lack morals.
Because they want you before you make the big change!!!!!!!!!!!!and they know you.....DO IT.
My husband and I both get hit on sometimes. I was always way too cool to hit on a married man when I was single. And I had no problem telling married men that ';sorry hon, but you are wasting your time. I have 0 respect for guys like you';.
It's the challenge of the hunt. You're clearly marked as ';belonging to another'; and those that see that (men and women) will hit on you to see if they can tempt you to stray. It gets worse once you're married. Point in fact, I wear a wedding ring even though I am not married when I go out, and it is AMAZING how many women will come over and talk to me, thinking I am ';safe'; because I am ';taken';. It's super hard to make that first contact with women (as a guy), so every little bit helps. Once we've talked a bit, and she'll ask if I am married, I tell her no, and the ring is my Grandfather's before he passed. Once she knows I'm not creepy and not looking for a notch on my bed post, we can usually hit it off better from there.
when i was married i always had woman flirt with me.since i got divorced a few years ago its like they wont even look at me. they know your taken and woman thrive for attention so flirting with a guy who is accounted for lets them get that attention knowing you wont actually try something with them,because your taken.
they know that coz you are committed to someone else, they dont need to be committed to you and neither do they want it.
youre not the attraction in this case. the lack of committment is.
my ex tried that when i got engaged. and his exact words were ';i just like the feeling of trying for something that belongs to someone else';
i was so shocked. then he told me i needed to come party with him after my wedding, and that i better wear my ring cause he likes seeing another mans ring on my hand when we were hanging out.
makes me sick!!!
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment