How do older couples get through infidelity you know people who were married for 25 plus years?

they dont get through it, they never cheat in the first place, once a cheat, always a cheatHow do older couples get through infidelity you know people who were married for 25 plus years?
Same way any other couple does: by choosing to work things out and then creating a new relationship.How do older couples get through infidelity you know people who were married for 25 plus years?
Age makes no difference, it tears you up emotionally.
People who cheat after a long marriage deal with it like everyone else. Some can't deal with cheating and get divorced and some can put the past in the past and have a good marriage.
Go to couples therapy. If both parties want the marriage to survive this willingness should help them to work through the issues. Both old and new.





25 plus years is a hell of a long time. Marriage, home, kids and 25 years shared life together - it's heaps and heaps to give up on which is why it makes sense to have a go at salvaging / remaking the relationship. Having said that, both parties need to want to. No point otherwise.
The same way every body else gets through it (time) it's hard but in my opinion being alone or starting over with someone new would be even harder. Sure being with someone new would feel good for awhile but when the newness wears off you are left with someone you don't really know and will take years to get to know.Sometimes we don't have years to start over. Lets face it when our bodies start to age and slow down we couldn't imagine letting someone new look at our bodies especial men.When a man looks at you he wants to really look at you and the older we women get that is the last thing we want is for a man to be looking at things we been trying to hind. You younger women who read this are thinking I'll never be that way,well I'm here to tell you that yes you will be that way. It's been 10 years sense my husband cheated on me and i chose to give him a chance to prove to me that it was a one time thing and it will never happen again. He has been good as gold so far but that's not to say he can't or won't do it again to me,so far so good. At this point in my life i can't imagine life without him and I'm hoping he feels the same way about me. If not then I'll go my way and he can go straight to hell.
Older people are more mature so they work things out by talking about the situation, learning on each other's shoulders, %26amp; regaining trust in each other.





It seems that younger people just want to break up after going through this %26amp; not work on saving the relationship.
I got divorced after 26 years, he played about 10 years previously and I tried to forgive and forget but it never worked. Turns out he did it other times after that too!!!! Some people are lucky and marry faithful people and some are unlucky and don't.
The same as everyone else...





... except with the benefit of experience.
that is something that is hard to get through no matter how long you are married, it would depend on the couple,