Friday, January 15, 2010

How can i stop feeling so jealous when i see all these happy couples?

i am 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend before. i kissed this one guy twice, but only fast ';pecks'; and turns out he is a real weirdo. yesterday i went to a big fair with my gramma. i saw all the happy couples there - holding hands, hugging/kissing each other. i am happy for them-don't get me wrong , but i just feel jealous because i've never had that and i wish i do. how can i stop feeling like this?How can i stop feeling so jealous when i see all these happy couples?
You're just seeing the good in relationships. There's a lot of bad stuff that goes on in a relationship that you don't see. They're extremely stressful and sometimes even bothersome.





Being single is actually pretty awesome, enjoy it.How can i stop feeling so jealous when i see all these happy couples?
Trust me I know how that is! I didnt have a boyfriend until I graduated from High School . I graduated early so I was 17. I was shy and a lot different than I am now. I always felt like I missed out on that part of my life. Im 22 now and have dated and met more guys now than a lot of girls get to! %26amp; now Im happy with my boyfriend of over a year! Ive changed a lot and trust me, your time will come too! I would focus on being young and having fun with your friends and meeting guys instead of wanting to be a ';couple'; with someone right now! Trust me, youll have so much more fun in a few years! Just dont make it a priority right now!
Hmm, girl don't feel bad. I'm pretty much in the same siuation as you. Just be happy that you don't have to deal with that. Relationships aren't always happy and lovey dovey. A lot of things can or will go wrong. The guy may not really love you, she may be cheating, they have a hard time getting along, etc.





But when you are single, you get to flirt with whoever you want. So don't worry, have fun, and as you get older you could start looking for relationships. just remember to be yourself. guys don't like girls who act fake.
sweetie you will deal with that your whole life! I am a couple decades older than you and get jealous when I see happy hand holding couples! Don't worry though you will get your turn and then hold on to all those memories! cause real life moves past the hand holding-smooching stage and unto being there for your loved one in much bigger ways
Try to put yourself there, imagine it's you! Someday it will be! If you can find it in your heart to be happy for them rather than focusing on the jealousy you will begin to feel better! Try to think positively, I'd much rather see happy couples than couples fighting and arguing!





You too will be happy!





Always,


Amie
Your guy is out there. Even though I was somewhat popular and always hung out with a lot of guys, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 17 1/2. And I ended up marrying him! Just remember that it will happen for you, and that sometimes the best things in life are worth waiting for.
It might be good for you to be single if you are not good with holding your pain inside, but when you know the time has you man then i know other people will be jealous of you.
If it makes you any happier...I had my first kiss when I was 18 and first real bf when I was 19....Age doesn't matter





Love is patient.








Don't be jelouse! because more couples LOOK happier then they really ARE. :/
be happy to be single. trust me. your only 16, your soooo young! you have so much time in your life to find the right one. i'm in a 3 year relationship and i feel terrible. maybe thatll make u feel a lil better. lol. be happy ur single...
it's hard to see happy couples, trust me I know. But just realize that you're strong with or without a boy by your side. (even though they're fun!) live life to the fullest but don't be afraid to flirt!
well maybe being single in a way is better u can talk to who ever u want and do who ever u want and married or with someone is much much different trust me they will always be watching you everysingle thing u do
think about all the things you like about yourself and hang with friends. friends are more important. and if all else fails, throw stuff at the couples as the walk by
what does this have to do with polls %26amp; surveys? and the way you stop feeling jealous is by being less shy around guys and get a date
Well if you want one of those quick


romances then go find yourself a boyfriend.


Or you could just wait to meet somebody special.
be lucky.


my parents never let me date anyone,


nd im 14.





just look at them and smile and how happy they are.


thats what i do.
Don't worry you will have one day and be as happy as we are..
You'll find someone when the time is right : )
Don't worry so much, you'll be just like them in time...
Umm, get a boyfriend??
well,..you just have to hold on..thats pretty normal (sometimes)..the day will come..and you wont feel so jealous anymore..just dont hurry things up because you might regret it afterwards...be happy!
ull always feel jealous til u get a bf. dont chill with u gramma so much and search in school for a guy
teach urself 2b happy being single.... not all couples r happy
You are way too young./ You will meet your guy soon.
You'll get over it in time.
wanna go out
you wont until u get one
Chop your eyes out...oh wait then you will still hear them...either way you are screwed ..sorry
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