I think it's blasphemy! I'm sure there is something in the Bible that can be twisted to back up this claim. No?Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
You have got to be kidding!Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
I do't really see how this is a sin, in honestly don't think God cares that much about peoples clothes as long as they are not immodest and being color-cooridinating is just fun once in a while! What made you eeven think this could be considered a sin? Then again on the subject of twisting the bible, yes you can twist the bible to say that basically anything is a sin but there is just no point.
Bottom line: Its just clothing color, who cares?
So it's a sin for straight couples, but not for gay couples?
The fact you would even notice to care enough about this says more about you than them.
Are you sure you know what team you're playing for?
I think anyone can find something in the bible to back up any twisted thought process.
*smirk*
What a shame
Not a sin, but highly frowned upon.
No it isn't a sin
Not at all. My husband and I often laugh because we have unconsciously teamed up our outfits. I am sure God delights to see His children enjoying themselves.
Obviously, if you consider fashion crimes a sin.
Once I was so enraged by a mullet in a McDonald's that I promise you I would have cut it off the wearer had I had scissors handy. No court in the WORLD would have convicted me.
Are you serious???
No - it is not a sin. If you don't like dressing the same then don't.
How is this blasphemy? Speaking against the Holy Spirit is blasphemy.
This is what blasphemy is....
Blasphemy
Offences Against the Holy Spirit 禄 Blasphemy against him, unpardonable (Matthew 12:31,32; 1 John 5:16)
Anger 禄 CONNECTED WITH 禄 Malice and blasphemy (Colossians 3:8)
Assyria 禄 SENNACHERIB KING OF 禄 Reproved for pride and blasphemy (2 Kings 19:12-34; Isaiah 37:21-29)
Despair 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Isaiah 8:21; Revelations 16:10,11)
Strife 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Leviticus 24:10,11)
Temple, The Second 禄 THE JEWS 禄 Considered it blasphemy to speak against (Matthew 26:61; Acts 6:13;21:28)
Please go to this website to read information about blasphemy:
http://www.biblegateway.com/topical/topi鈥?/a>
Oddly, you don't even have to twist it.
Deuteronomy 22:5
';The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman鈥檚 garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.';
I think this could be construed as no matching clothes.
Not that I'm aware of but it could tie in with loving your neighbour and not forcing them to see it. lol
No, but it maybe if they visit a Gay bar.
its cute, but mostly done with kids as teenagers especially when you are taking pictures together.
It's highly embarrassing for them, and should be made an arrestable offence.
All I know is, You aren't Catholic. That's a full-blown Prot way of looking at things.
You've done that a bunch of times, like you are on a cause to prove Sola Scriptura. Makes you look like an idiot.
no - just the gay couples
LMFAO . . .well no , that is not a sin, but greed is. So if you start worshipping your outfits, then there's a damn problem. LOL
Oh, I am a sinner!
My spouse and I look so damn good together, we just can't help ourselves.
.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
I think it's blasphemy! I'm sure there is something in the Bible that can be twisted to back up this claim. No?Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
You have got to be kidding!Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
I do't really see how this is a sin, in honestly don't think God cares that much about peoples clothes as long as they are not immodest and being color-cooridinating is just fun once in a while! What made you eeven think this could be considered a sin? Then again on the subject of twisting the bible, yes you can twist the bible to say that basically anything is a sin but there is just no point.
Bottom line: Its just clothing color, who cares?
So it's a sin for straight couples, but not for gay couples?
The fact you would even notice to care enough about this says more about you than them.
Are you sure you know what team you're playing for?
I think anyone can find something in the bible to back up any twisted thought process.
*smirk*
What a shame
Not a sin, but highly frowned upon.
No it isn't a sin
Not at all. My husband and I often laugh because we have unconsciously teamed up our outfits. I am sure God delights to see His children enjoying themselves.
Obviously, if you consider fashion crimes a sin.
Once I was so enraged by a mullet in a McDonald's that I promise you I would have cut it off the wearer had I had scissors handy. No court in the WORLD would have convicted me.
Are you serious???
No - it is not a sin. If you don't like dressing the same then don't.
How is this blasphemy? Speaking against the Holy Spirit is blasphemy.
This is what blasphemy is....
Blasphemy
Offences Against the Holy Spirit 禄 Blasphemy against him, unpardonable (Matthew 12:31,32; 1 John 5:16)
Anger 禄 CONNECTED WITH 禄 Malice and blasphemy (Colossians 3:8)
Assyria 禄 SENNACHERIB KING OF 禄 Reproved for pride and blasphemy (2 Kings 19:12-34; Isaiah 37:21-29)
Despair 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Isaiah 8:21; Revelations 16:10,11)
Strife 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Leviticus 24:10,11)
Temple, The Second 禄 THE JEWS 禄 Considered it blasphemy to speak against (Matthew 26:61; Acts 6:13;21:28)
Please go to this website to read information about blasphemy:
http://www.biblegateway.com/topical/topi鈥?/a>
Oddly, you don't even have to twist it.
Deuteronomy 22:5
';The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman鈥檚 garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.';
I think this could be construed as no matching clothes.
Not that I'm aware of but it could tie in with loving your neighbour and not forcing them to see it. lol
No, but it maybe if they visit a Gay bar.
its cute, but mostly done with kids as teenagers especially when you are taking pictures together.
It's highly embarrassing for them, and should be made an arrestable offence.
All I know is, You aren't Catholic. That's a full-blown Prot way of looking at things.
You've done that a bunch of times, like you are on a cause to prove Sola Scriptura. Makes you look like an idiot.
no - just the gay couples
LMFAO . . .well no , that is not a sin, but greed is. So if you start worshipping your outfits, then there's a damn problem. LOL
Oh, I am a sinner!
My spouse and I look so damn good together, we just can't help ourselves.
.
You have got to be kidding!Is it a sin for straight couples to color coordinate their outfits?
I do't really see how this is a sin, in honestly don't think God cares that much about peoples clothes as long as they are not immodest and being color-cooridinating is just fun once in a while! What made you eeven think this could be considered a sin? Then again on the subject of twisting the bible, yes you can twist the bible to say that basically anything is a sin but there is just no point.
Bottom line: Its just clothing color, who cares?
So it's a sin for straight couples, but not for gay couples?
The fact you would even notice to care enough about this says more about you than them.
Are you sure you know what team you're playing for?
I think anyone can find something in the bible to back up any twisted thought process.
*smirk*
What a shame
Not a sin, but highly frowned upon.
No it isn't a sin
Not at all. My husband and I often laugh because we have unconsciously teamed up our outfits. I am sure God delights to see His children enjoying themselves.
Obviously, if you consider fashion crimes a sin.
Once I was so enraged by a mullet in a McDonald's that I promise you I would have cut it off the wearer had I had scissors handy. No court in the WORLD would have convicted me.
Are you serious???
No - it is not a sin. If you don't like dressing the same then don't.
How is this blasphemy? Speaking against the Holy Spirit is blasphemy.
This is what blasphemy is....
Blasphemy
Offences Against the Holy Spirit 禄 Blasphemy against him, unpardonable (Matthew 12:31,32; 1 John 5:16)
Anger 禄 CONNECTED WITH 禄 Malice and blasphemy (Colossians 3:8)
Assyria 禄 SENNACHERIB KING OF 禄 Reproved for pride and blasphemy (2 Kings 19:12-34; Isaiah 37:21-29)
Despair 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Isaiah 8:21; Revelations 16:10,11)
Strife 禄 LEADS TO 禄 Blasphemy (Leviticus 24:10,11)
Temple, The Second 禄 THE JEWS 禄 Considered it blasphemy to speak against (Matthew 26:61; Acts 6:13;21:28)
Please go to this website to read information about blasphemy:
http://www.biblegateway.com/topical/topi鈥?/a>
Oddly, you don't even have to twist it.
Deuteronomy 22:5
';The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman鈥檚 garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.';
I think this could be construed as no matching clothes.
Not that I'm aware of but it could tie in with loving your neighbour and not forcing them to see it. lol
No, but it maybe if they visit a Gay bar.
its cute, but mostly done with kids as teenagers especially when you are taking pictures together.
It's highly embarrassing for them, and should be made an arrestable offence.
All I know is, You aren't Catholic. That's a full-blown Prot way of looking at things.
You've done that a bunch of times, like you are on a cause to prove Sola Scriptura. Makes you look like an idiot.
no - just the gay couples
LMFAO . . .well no , that is not a sin, but greed is. So if you start worshipping your outfits, then there's a damn problem. LOL
Oh, I am a sinner!
My spouse and I look so damn good together, we just can't help ourselves.
.
The theme of my Sadie Hawkins dance is ';Things that go together or famous couples'; any suggestions? Thanks
mr and mrs smith
the fight scene towards the end yehh
that cud work as a dance! lolThe theme of my Sadie Hawkins dance is ';Things that go together or famous couples'; any suggestions? Thanks
the couple from ';Grease'; or Romeo and Juliet....or Jack and Rose from TitanicThe theme of my Sadie Hawkins dance is ';Things that go together or famous couples'; any suggestions? Thanks
Adam and Eve...
ketchup %26amp; mustard
milk %26amp; cookies
PB%26amp;J
';] now im hungry
Bonnie and Clyde would be awesome.
Sun and Moon.
Santa and Mrs. Clause.
Doctor and Nurse.
King and Queen of Hearts.
Barbie and Ken.
Minny and Mickey Mouse.
Chips and Salsa.
Batman and Catwoman.
Fire and Ice.
Sonny and Cher.
Anthony and Cleopatra . . . (togas!)
Tinkerbelle and Peterpan.
A Leprechaun and a Pot 'o Gold.
Spiderman and Mary Jane.
And my personal favorite . . .
Deer/Moose/other animal and a Hunter! So funny!
ketchup and mustard. do it.
the fight scene towards the end yehh
that cud work as a dance! lolThe theme of my Sadie Hawkins dance is ';Things that go together or famous couples'; any suggestions? Thanks
the couple from ';Grease'; or Romeo and Juliet....or Jack and Rose from TitanicThe theme of my Sadie Hawkins dance is ';Things that go together or famous couples'; any suggestions? Thanks
Adam and Eve...
ketchup %26amp; mustard
milk %26amp; cookies
PB%26amp;J
';] now im hungry
Bonnie and Clyde would be awesome.
Sun and Moon.
Santa and Mrs. Clause.
Doctor and Nurse.
King and Queen of Hearts.
Barbie and Ken.
Minny and Mickey Mouse.
Chips and Salsa.
Batman and Catwoman.
Fire and Ice.
Sonny and Cher.
Anthony and Cleopatra . . . (togas!)
Tinkerbelle and Peterpan.
A Leprechaun and a Pot 'o Gold.
Spiderman and Mary Jane.
And my personal favorite . . .
Deer/Moose/other animal and a Hunter! So funny!
ketchup and mustard. do it.
Why do people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents?
t boggles the mind. Most pedophiles are HETEROSEXUAL. And people are not ';raised to be gay';. I hate stereotypes and this is the worst type of stereotype becasue no one in society is lower than the pedophile. People will probably answer that they do not think that gay people abuse and molest children but that does not stop the fact that many if not most have this deep-seated ignorance.
The myth that same-sex couples create dysfunctional children has been disproven time and time again and there is no evidence to support it only bias and righteousness.Why do people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents?
Because the are ignorant!Why do people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents?
Because they're tied up in their own fears what they learned from their innept peers and parents that gays are perverts etc. And maybe they fear also that gays would prove better parents than they are, the dysfunctional folk most hetero people are already.
Because they are stupid.......
I don't understand why people think this way other than religious upbringing and ignorance (which pardon me, but they usually go hand in hand).
From what I've discovered, most people that are against gay parenting have never met a gay parent in their life. They think in traditional terms where ';the Bible says man and woman should have baby.'; Exactly. They blindly turn away from bad talking single parent families or anything else, but they always seem to target gay parents.
I've actually met a few people who were raised by two mothers. I haven't ever met anyone raised by two fathers unfortunately, but I've met at least three of my friends who have two mothers.
My friends family conditions weren't perfect, but who is? I've had friends whose parents emotionally and physically abused them--and they've come from traditional man-woman families. No family comes from propaganda posters from WWI.
But yea, people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents because of the sole fact that they are ignorant to the fact that a child can thrive in any given environment where there are lots of love, attention, and devotion to the child.
Just look at the word 'assume' - a-s-s u me... that's why... because they are asses.
Because most so called ';normal'; and ';righteous'; people are filled up with groundless homophobic prejudices in which they often mix homosexuality and paedophily.
But all studies proved that children raised by Gay parents are as normal and balanced and happy as any children raised in heterosexual families.
But prejudices have strong and long lives. Many more water will flow in the amazon before prejudices against GLBT people will dry out.
most straight couples are mor irresponsible then gay couples
b-cuz the people i watch kids suck at parenting when i had to watch this kid 1nce when i went to there house it was amess and the baby wasn't changed had diaper rash no clean clothes dirty dishes and all they wanted to go do was go gamble for bout 5 hrs
I think most people who do not approve of gay couples raising children are NOT saying they are irresponsible. But as those who believe in man/women marriage and family units, we believe that children should be raised in the home with the family unit as it was meant to be, with a MOTHER and a FATHER. I personally believe that it is very important in a child's upbringing have the influences that a mother and father provide. I don't care how you argue the point, 2 lesbians or 2 gay men do not provide that kind of family life for the child. But it does not mean that they are irresponsible or less caring or less loving. It is the traditional family setting that is missing. You will probably say it should not matter, and this is where the disagreement comes in.
Well people who are gay don't have the mother father attraction on a child as straight people do.
But they do try their best at making sure their child gets what they need.
If a child grows up in a gay family they will soon be made fun of at school and the teachers then blame the parents so that why most people don't think gays can raise children.
But i totally disagree so people should let people raise their family the way they want to.
Because they are closed minded, and can not look past the gay issue. They see two gay people and that is all that they think about. When they finally get past their issues with homosexuality, and focus on the parenting issue, they are afraid. They are afraid of something new that is not what they would consider ';normal.'; They can not accept the truth that homosexuals can be good parents too, if not even better.
I think it's cause if you have two gay men, and they have a male child with them, there would be a chance they would molest him. I mean if preists were know to do that, what chance does a regular gay man have to contradict this claim?consumables
The myth that same-sex couples create dysfunctional children has been disproven time and time again and there is no evidence to support it only bias and righteousness.Why do people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents?
Because the are ignorant!Why do people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents?
Because they're tied up in their own fears what they learned from their innept peers and parents that gays are perverts etc. And maybe they fear also that gays would prove better parents than they are, the dysfunctional folk most hetero people are already.
Because they are stupid.......
I don't understand why people think this way other than religious upbringing and ignorance (which pardon me, but they usually go hand in hand).
From what I've discovered, most people that are against gay parenting have never met a gay parent in their life. They think in traditional terms where ';the Bible says man and woman should have baby.'; Exactly. They blindly turn away from bad talking single parent families or anything else, but they always seem to target gay parents.
I've actually met a few people who were raised by two mothers. I haven't ever met anyone raised by two fathers unfortunately, but I've met at least three of my friends who have two mothers.
My friends family conditions weren't perfect, but who is? I've had friends whose parents emotionally and physically abused them--and they've come from traditional man-woman families. No family comes from propaganda posters from WWI.
But yea, people assume that gay couples are irresponsible parents because of the sole fact that they are ignorant to the fact that a child can thrive in any given environment where there are lots of love, attention, and devotion to the child.
Just look at the word 'assume' - a-s-s u me... that's why... because they are asses.
Because most so called ';normal'; and ';righteous'; people are filled up with groundless homophobic prejudices in which they often mix homosexuality and paedophily.
But all studies proved that children raised by Gay parents are as normal and balanced and happy as any children raised in heterosexual families.
But prejudices have strong and long lives. Many more water will flow in the amazon before prejudices against GLBT people will dry out.
most straight couples are mor irresponsible then gay couples
b-cuz the people i watch kids suck at parenting when i had to watch this kid 1nce when i went to there house it was amess and the baby wasn't changed had diaper rash no clean clothes dirty dishes and all they wanted to go do was go gamble for bout 5 hrs
I think most people who do not approve of gay couples raising children are NOT saying they are irresponsible. But as those who believe in man/women marriage and family units, we believe that children should be raised in the home with the family unit as it was meant to be, with a MOTHER and a FATHER. I personally believe that it is very important in a child's upbringing have the influences that a mother and father provide. I don't care how you argue the point, 2 lesbians or 2 gay men do not provide that kind of family life for the child. But it does not mean that they are irresponsible or less caring or less loving. It is the traditional family setting that is missing. You will probably say it should not matter, and this is where the disagreement comes in.
Well people who are gay don't have the mother father attraction on a child as straight people do.
But they do try their best at making sure their child gets what they need.
If a child grows up in a gay family they will soon be made fun of at school and the teachers then blame the parents so that why most people don't think gays can raise children.
But i totally disagree so people should let people raise their family the way they want to.
Because they are closed minded, and can not look past the gay issue. They see two gay people and that is all that they think about. When they finally get past their issues with homosexuality, and focus on the parenting issue, they are afraid. They are afraid of something new that is not what they would consider ';normal.'; They can not accept the truth that homosexuals can be good parents too, if not even better.
I think it's cause if you have two gay men, and they have a male child with them, there would be a chance they would molest him. I mean if preists were know to do that, what chance does a regular gay man have to contradict this claim?
Are there any Pisces and Aquarius couples out there?
Just wondering what the stats are. Im a Pisces and no one else intrigues me like the aquarian but even though Im way ahead of them in many ways im still too clingy. What to do?Are there any Pisces and Aquarius couples out there?
Ive dated one before but he has cats and smokes....we are alot better with Taurus, Aries, Cancer, Scorpio, and possibly another Pisces or Leo...we are flirts and Tauruses and firesigns know how to flirt like we do and love sex too.. and they can talk!!Are there any Pisces and Aquarius couples out there?
I'm a Pisces but I am not coupled w/ anyone.
as a matter of fact, i'm talkin to an Aquarius too!! so far, no problems. i've gotten along with most other Aquarians, so have no worries.
Sounds good to me....try this...http://www.astro.com %26amp; http://www.chaosastrology.com and only go for the free readings and the PDF wheel! The latter I mentioned is the better link as it is a full length reading for FREE!!!!!
honey im pisces and hes aquarian. the chemistry is awesom but hes also aloof and selfish. he has an eye for pretty girls. he loves the mystery and is intrigued by females that crosses his path. his ego is way too big and hes a liar. and this is hell on me you know how we pisces gals are. once he knows everything there is to know about you his interest will wane. this union will be painful and alota hard work. you are better of with taurus or scorpio, all the best mwah
Ive dated one before but he has cats and smokes....we are alot better with Taurus, Aries, Cancer, Scorpio, and possibly another Pisces or Leo...we are flirts and Tauruses and firesigns know how to flirt like we do and love sex too.. and they can talk!!Are there any Pisces and Aquarius couples out there?
I'm a Pisces but I am not coupled w/ anyone.
as a matter of fact, i'm talkin to an Aquarius too!! so far, no problems. i've gotten along with most other Aquarians, so have no worries.
Sounds good to me....try this...http://www.astro.com %26amp; http://www.chaosastrology.com and only go for the free readings and the PDF wheel! The latter I mentioned is the better link as it is a full length reading for FREE!!!!!
honey im pisces and hes aquarian. the chemistry is awesom but hes also aloof and selfish. he has an eye for pretty girls. he loves the mystery and is intrigued by females that crosses his path. his ego is way too big and hes a liar. and this is hell on me you know how we pisces gals are. once he knows everything there is to know about you his interest will wane. this union will be painful and alota hard work. you are better of with taurus or scorpio, all the best mwah
Why dont my parents accept interracial couples?
I am a white female and I date all colors they dont want me to date black guys cuz they hit girls and only use gurlz they say. but my ex boyfriend is black and the most loving kind person i ever met and I cryed cuz my parent would neva wnt 2 meet him and just called him bad black names.I dont kno what 2 do!!!!!!help me please!I love him and my parents sed if i stay w him they will dis own me and my family. they call me a ***** lova and no white guy will ever want me now.cuz i was with a black guy.they sed only white trash and ugly girls date blacks.Why dont my parents accept interracial couples?
Honey you obviously know your parents and a lot of people are racial but that does NOT make it okay that's why you should be very happy to know that you are your own person and make your own decision. Telling a girl she's less than a man is sexism, so is telling a black guy he's less than a white man is racism. It should NEVER be allowed but people do it all the time. Just be the one to find happiness NO MATTER what skin colour, and if people want to stereotype you then that's only a real sad problem with them! not you!
If your ex made you happy then be happy, coz finding an honest man is hard in itself.. regardless of skin tone!
And as for your parents... some folks never change (even mine) give them time but don't let them teach you that being racist is ok! Coz it never is!Why dont my parents accept interracial couples?
omg, you poor thing!!
well I guess this proves that parent's aren't always right and they don't always do / know the right things...!
As long as they are not really throwing you out of the house, go right ahead and date any ';color'; you want.
Also try to talk with your parents in a reasonable fashion. Tell them, you are Not Ugly and you are Not White Trash (obviously) so duH, maybe you are with the guy because he is a gentleman, intelligent, interesting etc. etc. And that there are loads of white guys who ';hit girls and only use them for u-know-what'; etc.
Just remember, you can't change your parents completely, after all they are fixed in their time-warp ways - but you should never stop trying!! If someone is say niggalova, then it means they are not thinking too deeply on the subject - that's Problem # 1 !!!
If you're parents feel this way, there is a good reason for it. You're too young to know if you love this guy and want to be with him forever. You're YOUNG and don't know everything there is to know about life, and you never will for that matter, but you dont know enough. He may be a nice guy but there is a reason your parents dont want you with him. The only white girls I've ever seen dating black guys are trashy, fat, or both. If you date a black guy, no white guy will ever want to date you again, I promise you this. By fiance would have never gave me the time of day if I had ever been with a black guy and vice versa.
im sorry that u r in such a problem but heres the deal ur parents are small minded and r set in there ways wat u need to think about is if u love ur bf so much that u would leave your family for him then if u can u need to tell your family and your boyfriend how u r feeling if u chose me for your best answer i would like to no how u responed to this
When you become a big girl, and pay your way through life, away from mommy and daddy, date whoever you want.
Why don't you just go and ask them?
lol
At least you would probably know the real reason why, instead of our opinions. Even if you don't like what you hear, at least you could get an honest answer to your question.
Good luck!
: )
They're Old School!
If the day in age that we are in now. It was probably their upbringing too. Someone i know likes black guys and her parents have went to the extent of telling her that in the bible it's a sin to date outside your race. God sees no different. He only see equal. Keep doin' what you are doin' if it makes you happy. Any race can hit and beat their women. I would much rather my child to be with a black guy that is going to treat her like gold and see her happy rather than a white man that is going to beat her and see her miserable.
If you're an adult, do what you want. Your parents are in the wrong. You need to take each individual for who he is, not judge by color.
You need to realize that your parents aren't the only ones who will look at you differently if you are with a black guy, so you may want to consider what your life will be like in public.
But if that doesn't bother you, you should live your own life, once you are out of the house and on your own. As long as you live in your parents' house and they pay your way, you have to abide by their rules.
I doubt if any white guy worth having would refuse you, based on who you've dated before.
Also, believe me when I say, it is not only people living in the South who have attitudes about interracial relationships. People up north just like to pretend they don't have prejudices. Obviously they do, or they would not be making assumptions that your parents are from the South! I lived up north for several years, and got a lot of snide remarks when people found out I'm from the South. They never realized right off, since I don't have an accent. Jerks abound in every part of the country (although I still believe most people are basically nice).
You're parents are ignorant. If they can't see you happy, then they only think of themselves. I've been in an interracial relationship for 4.5 years now. At first, his white mom didn't like it because she didn't want her son to be a victim of racism. But because she saw how happy he was, she allowed it and now is my closest friend. Black, white, red, green, we are all the same people. People should stop hating.
It is very difficult for the older generation to accept interracial couples. That is not how they were brought up. The younger generation can accept it better because they have more of an open mind. I really don't know the answer. You have to make up your mind as to what you want more. Before you decide please take a long time to think about it. They were harsh on you, but remember they only want what they think is best. Even though you don't agree. Good luck.
i feel your pain as i am in this situation...mine is not black he is arab but i have dated ppl from many different races, its not fair for people to be so narrow minded especially your parents they should see that he was a caring loving guy no matter what and all the names and things that said seem horrible to me!
but praise to you because you accept people and their differences....i chose to stay with my man and now i barely talk to my parents that may sound rude on my part but thats how i dealt with it, they need to accept him someday and who knows if they will but I am so happy! you cant always please your parents...your gonna wear the wrong clothes and date the wrong guys and buy the wrong car, house, etc. dont let them stand in the way of your true happiness! my parents basically disowned me..you should talk to him and tell him this and maybe he can help you out.
im sorry your going through this i know it causes pain for everyone but nothing can stand in the way of true love! if u really wanna talk u can contact me i would love to help more.
parents know whats best for their children, don't argue with them. they come from a different generation. they must be a good southern family with southern roots.
white trash and ugly girls don't date black guys. trust me i've dated a black guy. they want the same things that a white guy wants. and if your parents have a problem with it and if you love him it shouldn't matter. choose who means the most to you. and not all black guys treat girls bad. they are human too so they shouldn't be treated like that.
I think your parents need to grow up and except all gods children.they maybe never change but i would not stop going out with him just because your parents do not like black people.times has changed we don't see people for there color but for who they are.tell your parents that it is time to change its 2006.
My ex-wife was a black woman and i loved her very much, if you know this is the guy for you with all of your heart and soul then stick with him, but make sure as with any guy that he is the right one for you. It doesn't matter what color he is though, if you love him that's all that matters.
Honey you obviously know your parents and a lot of people are racial but that does NOT make it okay that's why you should be very happy to know that you are your own person and make your own decision. Telling a girl she's less than a man is sexism, so is telling a black guy he's less than a white man is racism. It should NEVER be allowed but people do it all the time. Just be the one to find happiness NO MATTER what skin colour, and if people want to stereotype you then that's only a real sad problem with them! not you!
If your ex made you happy then be happy, coz finding an honest man is hard in itself.. regardless of skin tone!
And as for your parents... some folks never change (even mine) give them time but don't let them teach you that being racist is ok! Coz it never is!Why dont my parents accept interracial couples?
omg, you poor thing!!
well I guess this proves that parent's aren't always right and they don't always do / know the right things...!
As long as they are not really throwing you out of the house, go right ahead and date any ';color'; you want.
Also try to talk with your parents in a reasonable fashion. Tell them, you are Not Ugly and you are Not White Trash (obviously) so duH, maybe you are with the guy because he is a gentleman, intelligent, interesting etc. etc. And that there are loads of white guys who ';hit girls and only use them for u-know-what'; etc.
Just remember, you can't change your parents completely, after all they are fixed in their time-warp ways - but you should never stop trying!! If someone is say niggalova, then it means they are not thinking too deeply on the subject - that's Problem # 1 !!!
If you're parents feel this way, there is a good reason for it. You're too young to know if you love this guy and want to be with him forever. You're YOUNG and don't know everything there is to know about life, and you never will for that matter, but you dont know enough. He may be a nice guy but there is a reason your parents dont want you with him. The only white girls I've ever seen dating black guys are trashy, fat, or both. If you date a black guy, no white guy will ever want to date you again, I promise you this. By fiance would have never gave me the time of day if I had ever been with a black guy and vice versa.
im sorry that u r in such a problem but heres the deal ur parents are small minded and r set in there ways wat u need to think about is if u love ur bf so much that u would leave your family for him then if u can u need to tell your family and your boyfriend how u r feeling if u chose me for your best answer i would like to no how u responed to this
When you become a big girl, and pay your way through life, away from mommy and daddy, date whoever you want.
Why don't you just go and ask them?
lol
At least you would probably know the real reason why, instead of our opinions. Even if you don't like what you hear, at least you could get an honest answer to your question.
Good luck!
: )
They're Old School!
If the day in age that we are in now. It was probably their upbringing too. Someone i know likes black guys and her parents have went to the extent of telling her that in the bible it's a sin to date outside your race. God sees no different. He only see equal. Keep doin' what you are doin' if it makes you happy. Any race can hit and beat their women. I would much rather my child to be with a black guy that is going to treat her like gold and see her happy rather than a white man that is going to beat her and see her miserable.
If you're an adult, do what you want. Your parents are in the wrong. You need to take each individual for who he is, not judge by color.
You need to realize that your parents aren't the only ones who will look at you differently if you are with a black guy, so you may want to consider what your life will be like in public.
But if that doesn't bother you, you should live your own life, once you are out of the house and on your own. As long as you live in your parents' house and they pay your way, you have to abide by their rules.
I doubt if any white guy worth having would refuse you, based on who you've dated before.
Also, believe me when I say, it is not only people living in the South who have attitudes about interracial relationships. People up north just like to pretend they don't have prejudices. Obviously they do, or they would not be making assumptions that your parents are from the South! I lived up north for several years, and got a lot of snide remarks when people found out I'm from the South. They never realized right off, since I don't have an accent. Jerks abound in every part of the country (although I still believe most people are basically nice).
You're parents are ignorant. If they can't see you happy, then they only think of themselves. I've been in an interracial relationship for 4.5 years now. At first, his white mom didn't like it because she didn't want her son to be a victim of racism. But because she saw how happy he was, she allowed it and now is my closest friend. Black, white, red, green, we are all the same people. People should stop hating.
It is very difficult for the older generation to accept interracial couples. That is not how they were brought up. The younger generation can accept it better because they have more of an open mind. I really don't know the answer. You have to make up your mind as to what you want more. Before you decide please take a long time to think about it. They were harsh on you, but remember they only want what they think is best. Even though you don't agree. Good luck.
i feel your pain as i am in this situation...mine is not black he is arab but i have dated ppl from many different races, its not fair for people to be so narrow minded especially your parents they should see that he was a caring loving guy no matter what and all the names and things that said seem horrible to me!
but praise to you because you accept people and their differences....i chose to stay with my man and now i barely talk to my parents that may sound rude on my part but thats how i dealt with it, they need to accept him someday and who knows if they will but I am so happy! you cant always please your parents...your gonna wear the wrong clothes and date the wrong guys and buy the wrong car, house, etc. dont let them stand in the way of your true happiness! my parents basically disowned me..you should talk to him and tell him this and maybe he can help you out.
im sorry your going through this i know it causes pain for everyone but nothing can stand in the way of true love! if u really wanna talk u can contact me i would love to help more.
parents know whats best for their children, don't argue with them. they come from a different generation. they must be a good southern family with southern roots.
white trash and ugly girls don't date black guys. trust me i've dated a black guy. they want the same things that a white guy wants. and if your parents have a problem with it and if you love him it shouldn't matter. choose who means the most to you. and not all black guys treat girls bad. they are human too so they shouldn't be treated like that.
I think your parents need to grow up and except all gods children.they maybe never change but i would not stop going out with him just because your parents do not like black people.times has changed we don't see people for there color but for who they are.tell your parents that it is time to change its 2006.
My ex-wife was a black woman and i loved her very much, if you know this is the guy for you with all of your heart and soul then stick with him, but make sure as with any guy that he is the right one for you. It doesn't matter what color he is though, if you love him that's all that matters.
What are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
we dont want nothing nasty like foreplay pie or nothing something simple because we can't cook that well. Nothing with alfredo or pasta please.What are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
rice is so easy you would not believe it
pour 1 can chicken , beef or veggie broth in a pot then add 1/2 of the can filled with long grain rice(not minute or instant) bring just to boil on high then simmer tightly covered for twenty min on low heat dont peek or you'll end up with gummy rice
also try one can cream of whatever you like soup in a mixing bowl
add same can filled with milk and then fill it with rice(uncooked) then stir. add 1teaspoon pepper 1 teaspoon garlic powder and cooked ham, chicken, turkey, pork chops what ever I use leftovers from take away or deli meats also. dump into baking dish cover with foil wrap bake in oven 325 degree for 35 min uncover cook about 5-10 min more until browned slightly great tasting and cheap also.
thought of something else you know those packages of lipton rice and sauce or noodles and sauce? Add some ground beef browned and drained or any cooked meat and some veggies viola casseroleWhat are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
Why not try some stir frys you can use any meat you like and any vegetables you like, just slice your meat and vegies into similar sizes and have everything beside you, then heat up a pan until very hot. First stir fry meat in pan in small batches, until browned, then remove to bowl, then do same with vegies, now put meat back in to heat up and add the sauce of your choice, e.g. soy sauce, teriyaki sauce, or satay sauce. Just remember to have pan very hot and stir constantly. Good luck guys
rice is so easy you would not believe it
pour 1 can chicken , beef or veggie broth in a pot then add 1/2 of the can filled with long grain rice(not minute or instant) bring just to boil on high then simmer tightly covered for twenty min on low heat dont peek or you'll end up with gummy rice
also try one can cream of whatever you like soup in a mixing bowl
add same can filled with milk and then fill it with rice(uncooked) then stir. add 1teaspoon pepper 1 teaspoon garlic powder and cooked ham, chicken, turkey, pork chops what ever I use leftovers from take away or deli meats also. dump into baking dish cover with foil wrap bake in oven 325 degree for 35 min uncover cook about 5-10 min more until browned slightly great tasting and cheap also.
thought of something else you know those packages of lipton rice and sauce or noodles and sauce? Add some ground beef browned and drained or any cooked meat and some veggies viola casseroleWhat are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
Why not try some stir frys you can use any meat you like and any vegetables you like, just slice your meat and vegies into similar sizes and have everything beside you, then heat up a pan until very hot. First stir fry meat in pan in small batches, until browned, then remove to bowl, then do same with vegies, now put meat back in to heat up and add the sauce of your choice, e.g. soy sauce, teriyaki sauce, or satay sauce. Just remember to have pan very hot and stir constantly. Good luck guys
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