Why do most couples fight?

me and my boyfriend do and i really don't know why?Why do most couples fight?
We hurt the ones we love the most and usually they will forgive us.


Couples are going to disagree and couples are going to fight. I don't think anyone is exempt from this. I fight with my girlfriend over silly things most of the time and silly is better than serious because serious arguments wound. Remember that you love each other and apologize. Why do most couples fight?
VERY BAD RELATIONSHIP SKILLS!!!!!





Of course there are lots of underlying psychological reasons for all that fighting


but in the end, a good relationship is built on good relationship skills/methods/techniques, etc. which many folks were never taught and don't bother to learn despite failure after failure in their relationships.


you both should be each others very BEST and most trusted FRIEND and treat each other as such.


google relationshp tips


and get busy learning exactly how to treat each other and make a fantastic, long lasting, loving relationship...


as BEST FRIENDS.....not mean combatants!
Truly it is all about control - who has it. Nobody wants to be controlled, but we all try to controll the other person. Resentment builds and then we fight.





The only thing we actually can control is our own actions. Try to control yours, do not react to his jabs, when he push your buttons walk away do not engage - I fight takes two people, it gets really boring fighting yourself.





Try it are you will be doomed with fighting now to eternity,





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MONEY is the number 1 reason couples fight. If you and your bf argue a lot, you may not be compatible. Think carefully before you make it longterm.
You always treat the ones you love the worst. Pretty crappy of us, but that is how most of us work. We know that if we have a bad day and come home and take it out on our partner, they will still love us tomorrow.
money, tired and irritable, disagree on how to act, disagree on where to go, disagree on how to handle a problem, lack of communication, cheating, taking each other for granted, whether or not to get married or when, parental problems..
Stick around someone long enough and you'll find a lot about them you'd need to tolerate. It's not like you'd be shy to confront them about it either.
Why are you so attached to someone you have little in common with? Being alone is much better than being is an argument all the time.
I heard mostly over money but in your case I'd say.....I dunno...um...holding secrets..? Not being open enough? Too flirty?
The inability to compromise or to accept fault for something.
because when you spend so much time and intimacy with one person its innevitable
Because you have no other jobs then fighting.
Money
because that's what couples do.