Sunday, May 9, 2010

Besides money what are the reason married couples fight about ?

jealousy


family


tattoosBesides money what are the reason married couples fight about ?
whoring aroundBesides money what are the reason married couples fight about ?
Spirituality and religion, lack of morals, different beliefs about what their kids can and cannot be exposed to.
Kids


In-laws


Sex or lack there of


Too little time together


Too much time together


Lack of communication


Misunderstandings


Hectic Schedules


Differing Schedules





To name a few! lol
I would have to say sex, lack of. Men can never get it enough. My husband and I had sex everyday for 6 months and he still complained he wasn't getting it enough! So I stopped and cut back to like once a week, to show him how good he had it!
Oh? Are there other reasons?
everything,,,,its a big competition sometimes..hahahah
not taking each others feelings into consideration will spawn a fight. Dishonesty is a biggie. Throwing cold water on your partner when they are sleeping is a sure fight. Infidelity. In-laws, relatives, house cleaning, TV. Room temperature. Not wiping your feet. Forgetting to pick them up at the airport. Breaking family air looms. Using there childhood blankie to check your oil in your car. The usual stuff.
The main reason is 'NOT UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER'. Other mismatches arise from this.
compromise, infedileties ,trust ,respect, responsibilty ,control ,change, freedom ,companionship, selfishness, drugs, alcohol ,sex, tv.remote, cooking. cleaning ,vehicle, gas, privacy ,betrayal ,child raising, poor decision making, difference of opinions ,character flaws
KIDS...Yours, Mine, Ours! My husband and I never fight about finance, household issues, in laws, but we do fight about kids, his kids, my kids, our kid....
Money


Sex


Religion


Discipline of children
beside money


they fight


because of


short of money


too much money


is there any other reasons
The amount of sex on the week or month. I discovered this after my husband left me twice according to him for the lack of sex in our marriage.
We've been married almost 9 yrs.; been together for 12 yrs....and we still fight about b.s.! Nonsense stuff usually. Sometimes because of feelings getting hurt, or there are other disagreements.
Are you ready for an answer. They are many, I have just listed some I have encountered. I am sure there could be manymore





a) Raising kids


1) differences on how to initiate a kid into each new activity


2) differences on how much to push child into education


3) differences on how much to expose a kid to other cultures


4) differences on influencing the kid with his/her opinions of


other close family members like grand parents %26amp; inlaws


5) maniplating the kid to enforce our views on how to bring up


for example forcing kid to eat, when kid says no


b) Cooking


1) Cooking stuff not liked by the other person


2) Exposing the children to new food from different cultures,


without giving them a grounding on native culture


c) Habits


1) Repeated actions that irritate other persons and ignoring


the partners entreaties on not to repeat them. Thus ineffect


showing a callousness about the whole issue


Example hanging towel in the doors.


2) hygiene


3) timeliness. When we need to reach A, we need to give


time for traffic and its variability


4) not being ready when getting ready to go out and always


forgetting the things to take. Thus lack of planning








But in general you would find, that all these occur mainly due to lack of trust, self-esteem and respect among partners,
Work!!
Cheating, lazyness
i believe next to money the item in a marriage that most couples argue about is SEX. most times its because one person fails to give the other person what they want or need, and instead of finding ways to compromise and do something for one another the one who feels that they are not getting what they want gives up the fight and finds it elsewhere. which usually is a huge mistake. it seems to me that if couples would just talk and listen to each other more about all things more marriages would last, but in today's society, a couple can seem to agree on everything except how to satisfy each other in bed. i mean, they can agree how many kids to have, what color to paint the house, what furniture to buy, what bank to use, where to eat out, but let one try to talk to the other about sex its a fight.
Religious differences, political differences, how to raise their children, if they both work who does what part of the housework. Who takes care of the yard work, the cars. Who's family they visit during the holidays.

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