Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?

My husband has moved out. Prior to the break up he said he was no longer attracted to me and hadn't had sex with me for 5 months. Now he's gone. He cheated on me 7 years ago and its never been right ever since. He didnt want to try therapy. So I think its time to move on. Will I be penalized by a judge if I start dating? Two men have already asked me for a date and its only been 5 days since my husband left. I don't like those guys but what if someone comes along that I do like? We have been married for 17 yrs and have three kids. No property.Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
No. Separated isn't divorced, so dating would still be adultery.Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
Not a good idea to date while u are separated...he ll use it against u in court to ask for custody etc....wait until the divorce is FINAL.....be patient....
There's more to this story than you are revealing obviously. If you want to move on file for divorce asap.
There are several questions in my mind here. You didn't specify if youre in the process of getting a divorce... (but I'm guessing you are since you mentioned a judge)anyway, are you in California?... where there's a no fault law.... do you worry about your religion? Is it against your religion?


I really think youre old enough to figure this question out. You see, if you yourself mentioned that you think it's time to move on , then i think you know what to do.... maybe you just need somekind of an encouragement or blessings to go ahead and do what yor heart desires.


For me, this world is full of hypocrasy (did i spell that right?) and shame inflicted to people even if they are just being ';people';.... we teach our children to be honest but forget to be honest to ourselves first. We tell them not to hurt anyone but we inflict hurt to ourselves or allow it. We don't seem to love or respect ourselves enough... we always try to be selfless but in doing so we end up taking ourselves for granted... so how could we be of good service to the ones we love or others if we don't take good care of ourselves first?
All those guys are after one thing. They could not [possibvly have goos intent moving in like this.


Take some time and deal with the divorce. Date again when it is final.





It will not be easy but you really need to establish an individual personality that does nort include a man first before you can make any choices regarding another one.
If you want to go out and unwind go! Just keep it on the down low until divorce is final. Go out when he has the kids. Since he was a jerk treat yourself to a nice man and have some fun! Look, nothing wrong with having guy friends who take you out for some fun!! Right! Plus you have 3 kids you need a break and some time for just you! Bubble baths don't always work sometimes you need spoiled by a good man!!
While you are seperated you are STILL married. Going to dinner or just general dating won't hurt but I advise no relationships because of the fact that you ARE still married. Stay away from forming a relationship unti AFTER your decree of divorce.
start dating as soon as possible!