Should married couples do this?

ok i was my husband first. and he told me he wanted to have a threesome with one of my best friends. so that i wouldnt be the only girl hes had sex with. and he wants it to spice up our sex lives. he told me that he would let me get my tounge pirced if we did. and that something i really want done. do you think i should do it?Should married couples do this?
First off, if you want to get your tongue pierced you really shouldn't have to get his permission. In addition, does allowing your husband to have sex with another woman sound like a reasonable way to get your way? If he wants to have sex with more girls I don't think he should have gotten married. Also, if it with one of your best friends things could get very awkward. I don't think you should do it.Should married couples do this?
Well first of all, shame on your husband. Once you get married he should know that he's blessed to have a wife. What kind of man asks to have sex with your best friend so you can get your tongue pierced? It will ruin your marriage, and your friendship. I also think you should just get your tongue pierced. You don't deserve to be with a guy who wants to be with someone else just to ';experiment';. Try dressing up to spice up your relationship. But don't let someone else in the bedroom cause it really does mess things up. I have heard numerous stories from friends about this.
If you REALLY truely dont think you will get jealous even a little, then whatever floats your boat.


But its hard to tell, because you might get in the situation and afterwards feel bad and then it will hurt your relationship.


I know I would never let my man seeing another woman naked.


And if your man even SUGGESTED who it should be with, dont you think he is attracted to her already? And having sex with her will make it worse. He will think about her all the time. And may even hurt the relationship btwn your friend and you.


I guess its a matter of preference tho.
you should not bring in your best friend that is a BIG NO GO trust me I did this with and ex and had major resentment when I felt pushed aside during the whole process. If you do it bring in a stranger and set rules/guidelines for you and your husband to follow during it for example if you only want him to *** on you or kissing on the lips is only for you. and 2 you shouldn't do it to get your tongue pierced that is a lame reason you should get your tongue pierced if you want it you shouldn't need permission from your husband to do that.
Let see.


He wants threesome with one of your friends. Smart!


Ask him if it will be OK if you'd have threesome but with one of his guy friends. If he sees no problem with that - look for some one else. And if he does ask him why you should settle for his offer?


Plus, why do you need his permission to get your tongue pierced? Aren't you a grown woman?


About spicing your sex life - learn new techniques. I bet both of you did not try all of them. Having another woman in the bed? Sound like he just wants to full around and have your permission (after all you were there - it is not cheating)
No married couples DO NOT DO SUCH THINGS (WELL REAL MARRIED COUPLES ANYWAY) You want to see your husband have sex with another girl.....that man doesnt love you at all. Thats my opinion.Its ashame how most married couples make a mockery out of love marriage and family, which is a beautiful thing and a real serious commitment.Your husband and you should go to marriage counseling or part ways
married couples need not do this but it's not new because other couples want to experiment.they do it without inhibitions.but you must ask yourself.am i comfortable with this?because you will share your husband to another girl(your best friend).can you tolerate it?or you think it's ok since you will have your tongue pierce?having your tongue pierce and having a threesome is different.
ok seriously you dont need his permission to get your tongue pierced. getting your tongue pierced and bringing another woman into your sex life are two totally different things. sex is suppose to be special between two people who love eachother. its more than sex its making love. when you bring another person into the bedroom it takes away from the initmate thing it really is. your husband needs to bring in morals into the picture and realize having a threesome isnt right
I would tell him that we could have a threesome with one of my best girlfriends..... but only after we have a threesome with his best-looking guy friend. And you don't need his permission to get your tongue pierced, darlin'!! If you are using that as a bargaining chip, you are a total fool! Not only will the threesome be for HIM, but he will be the one to benefit the most from you getting your tongue pierced!. Think!
Introducing second parties into your bedroom lead to a whole slew of problems that'll arise.. Are you prepared for that.





IF you've thought it all out, can handle it then go for it but be prepared that suddenly sex isn't involving you anymore....





Just for a tongue peircing? I'd be doing that anyway if I wanted it without a *bribe*
NO! Bringing in another person is not the way to go. Get your tongue pierced. It's your damn body.


Not the only girl he has had sex with...pffft.. tell him you want him to get another man in the bedroom so he's not the only man he has ever had sex with. Sounds like he is lusting after a friend.
He'd let you get your tongue pierced... Quite the shitty trade.





This could very very well ruin your marriage. If you're married, and he loves you... Why the hell does he want your friend in the sack with you? Obviously he has someone else on his mind.





Don't do it.
Get your tongue pierced and tell him you don't need permission, then tell him you went out and had the threesome without him, and that it was a great idea, you had no idea that he was so small.
you're just as bad as he is.


i can't believe you're actually thinking about going through with it just to get your tongue pierced! yeah you should definitely lose your self respect and all you stand for, for a piercing. you're ridiculous.
No do not do it.I would not share my husband with another woman or man. What would you do if he likes it %26amp; wants it more often. I do not recommend it.
Personally, I don't think it's a good idea. Please remember once done, you can never take it back. As for having your tongue pierced, you don't need to bargain for that right. It's your tongue.
I guess it depends on how jealous you get, and if your husband would keep expecting threesomes and being allowed to sleep with other women in the future.
wow that is funny and weird but only you can decide that
well, go ahead and get your tongue pierced and leave him with all his fantasies... he doesn't seem to care what you want... unless, this is what you want most.
Be careful. It could cause problems between you your husband and/or your best friend.
ummm you both are fairly immature....tongue piercing in exchange for threesome? How old are you both? 15?
Trawl?


No.





Even if you think you are bi, no.
LOL
Go for it!
you belong on the Jerry Springer show
I see no problem with this