Sunday, January 17, 2010

Do couples become happier when you give birth to a kid?

It depends...





Has the couple been waiting a long time for a child and really wanting that child to complete their ideal image of a family, and they have a solid relationship with good financial stability... then probably yes.





Has the couple been arguing all the time, fighting with each other, and the child comes into this situation and becomes yet another source of stress on an already fragile and unstable relationship, not to mention an economic burden...then probably no.Do couples become happier when you give birth to a kid?
That question can have multiple right answers depending on the couples situation!


If the couple has been trying to have a child and finally they get one, yes, they will be ecstatic.


If the couple has been having problems, and hopes that having a child will fix all the problems magically, then, no. They need to learn to get over their problems before they bring an innocent child into their dissapointing love life.


Also, imagine how the parents might treat a child that was supposed to fix all their problems but only made them worse? hmmm...something to consider.





I don't think happiness should be based on whether or not a child is born, I think a couple should already be happy, and even if they want a child, they should not have their lives ruined by not getting one. What I'm saying is that life has so many possibilities, why limit your happiness to the birth of a child?Do couples become happier when you give birth to a kid?
Couples can become happier after having a kid, but you have to know the right steps.





1. Bring the kid home, and take care of it for 2-3 weeks.


2. Realize how awful it is getting up with it every 2-3 hours, changing diapers, spending all your money on diapers %26amp; formula, and realize that it only gets worse as the kid gets older.


3. Give the baby up for adoption


4. Couple is happier knowing that they never have to deal with a kid again.
Only if you were happy to begin with.





If as a couple you were already happy in your relationship or marriage. Then having a little one ';can'; definitely bring more joy to your lives together.I say ';can'; because having a baby can put extra pressure and stress into your lives. Some relationships can't handle that stress and pressure. Others it takes some work, but the end result is amazing... not only do you have a amazing relationship and love in your life. But you end up with a ';family'; that you and your loved one, made together and can share together.





But if things weren't good to begin with in your relationship, I wouldn't expect things to improve with a baby. And if they did it would more than likely be temporary. Babys don't fix marriages and relationships... the people in them do.





It all really depends on the people. Every relationship is completely different. And therefore having a baby can effect every relationship differently.
its when the true colours comeout. daddy can be a good daddy, mommy can be a good mommy. this way the parents are happier. daddy could run away and leave mommy, or mommy could run away and leave daddy. it can and it can make couples feel worse.
For the most part, there is not much more in life that is as fulfilling and wonderful than bringing a life into this world but you have to consider that it makes life alittle more complicated and it can be harder to find time alone but so worth it !!
Not really, your relationship has to be strong before you have kids, because trust me they make you tired and irritable, and can make you fight, especially if you do not have the same views on raising a child.
yeah until the kid becomes a menace and keeps you up all night. they say that you have a good marriage if you can survive the first year with the first baby. but i dont have a kid so what do i know?
No, not at all. Babies are major work and stress. If you aren't happy before you have them, the baby will just further complicate things.
No they become preoccupied.





A baby wont fix a marriage, only delay the inevtiable
Id like to say no just because couples should already be happy enough together. But when they do give birth to a child their bond and love is felt a little more stronger I think. Tough question.?
i wouldnt so much as say that they make you happier but, it sure does make you understand what true love is.
no. sometimes it makes it even harder to get along.
We sure didn't.
sonwtimes but dont rest your hopes on it

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