Saturday, January 23, 2010
Where can we meet with other couples socially?
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Do you get jealous of other couples?
Like you see someone's boyfriend or girlfriend and you think 'wow they're hot'
also, do you ever think ';ew, the person their dating is ugly';Do you get jealous of other couples?
I get jealous when i look in the mirrorDo you get jealous of other couples?
twas a joke lol
haha..im single so i dont get jealous of couples. tho sometimes if a girl is really pretty i do think to myself she cld get someone hotter. but then u have to remember its not about looks lol and cant help who ur heart falls for.
No
jealously isn't going to get me anywhere
Yeah
yeah.......i do wen i see sum HANDSOME GUY with a PRETTY GAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeahconsumables
also, do you ever think ';ew, the person their dating is ugly';Do you get jealous of other couples?
I get jealous when i look in the mirrorDo you get jealous of other couples?
twas a joke lol
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haha..im single so i dont get jealous of couples. tho sometimes if a girl is really pretty i do think to myself she cld get someone hotter. but then u have to remember its not about looks lol and cant help who ur heart falls for.
No
jealously isn't going to get me anywhere
Yeah
yeah.......i do wen i see sum HANDSOME GUY with a PRETTY GAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah
Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
I think its becasue when people go out dating they are not themselves because they are constanly trying to impress their dates. So when they get married they finally act like themselves and are dissatisfied with how their lover really is. What do you think?Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
The #1 cause for divorce today is financial stress within the relationship. Men and women never get on the same page about the finances and get deeply into debt. Dave Ramsey has it going on.Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
i think so many of them rush into it. take your time get to know the person
Maybe it's because when you are married, you take your partner's love for granted and stop showing how much you love them and caring about your appearance. I think it's also harder to be with one person all the time than once in a while. Sometimes, after a day of hard work, people have less patience and can't avoid getting angry very easily. And when one person is in a bad mood, the other doesn't usually try to change it. Instead, they complain... Financial problems are also one of the reasons why people stop getting along. I think people should reflect about all this and try to be less selfish. Being understanding can solve lots of problems and keep love alive.
I think it is because divorce has became so easy. Marriage is not easy and takes some work. Instead of trying to work problems out it is just easier for some people to cut their losses and move on. Years ago divorce was only option in extreme circumstances, now anybody who has an ';unreconcilable difference'; can get divorced.
Well, I can tell you that the Christian divorce rate is as high as the secular (worldly) divorce rate.
So, because they seem to have little in commom, what would be the common link that would create this.
Many good churches with good people in them have a real problem and they share it with the world.
When two people get married, the world tears them apart, tells them they are individuals and should live their own lives, etc.
The church tells them that their marriage is sacred, and to keep it holy, and that they are now one flesh. But at the same time, the church will have the mens groups, and the ladies groups, and the mens retreats and the ladies retreats, mens only meetings, ladies only meetings. Get my point? How can you say someone is one flesh , and then your actions are to separate them whenever possible?
So the Church and the world have one major thing in commom that would keep their divorce rates equal to one another. They both divide the one flesh.
i like your answer..i also think that people today get married for the wrong reasons...lust not love...people also don't realize that over time people do change...so it's either both grow together ...or the other person will grow apart from the other one and find someone similar to them
You are right. I think it is mainly because they are not ready to get married when they do. Statistically, people are getting married WAY older than they used to when the baby boomers were around. We should see that divorce rate decline as people are now waiting till they are older to settle down.
Many differant reasons,
maybe jumping into it too soon and not ready.
Maybe being unfaithful.
maybe abuse.
The advent of the no-fault divorce.
People don't take it seriously. They jump in without thinking, and realizing that it isn't just about puppy love, and it requires work.
one big reason is because ppl mostly think that they are in love when in actiality they are just in love with the idea of a perfect, all-american life of wife, husband, 2 kids, a dog and the white picket fence.
unnatural act
People can take the sanity of spending maybe a few hours with each other but then when it comes down to maybe having to spend 9-17 hours with them becomes unbearable.
I think it is a lot more complicated than that. You would be right if people just jumped into marriage after a short period of dating. However, I can't see people being able to pretend they are someone else for a year or more. I think a lot of what happens is related to expectations and responsibilities. Life is hard enough but when you get married you are suddenly faced with a whole new set of responsibilities and expectations in addition to what already existed. A lot of people are just not prepared to deal with this. They struggle for a couple of years but never are really able to get a handle on things and it all just falls apart. I also think it is partially related to the fact that we have become more of a self focused culture. As a society now days we are more focused on what is good for us and what are we getting and what do we want. When you get married you have to change that what is in it for me to we and that isn't how we are taught to see life now days.
you are right, I got married 4 years ago my divorce was final in january..I don't beleive in marriage. I would not do it again
i have exactly the same thoughts as urs.. good view brother.. :) i totally agree with u
They are getting married for the wrong reasons..Some just want the feeling, experience of being married, some rush into something they are not ready for and dont take the time to get to know their partner before getting married....I was married for the wrong reasons and now I wont settle for anything less ..I want the whole Soul mate, partnership, love, passion, and being down for my man completely and solidly..no exceptions...
because they married 2 soon
They are excited by the idea of a wedding and the attention it brings and aren't aware of how much work goes into a marriage.
coz ppl get into a relation way to fast then marry way 2 fast and then diverce way to fast
get it
I think is what you say and more. A lot married people got married at a young age. Some in their teens. They don't know what a serious relationship is. Also, people get married out of ';love'; instead of understanding and compromising and learning that their partner is the one.
i think that marriage is a used up idea that doesn't fit anymore to our society's behavior.how can anyone expect to be faithful for all his life for example.its nonsense.and people are getting divorced mostly because of this.the man or woman were unfaithful and there it all ends.
I think you are partly right, and also that people marry sooner than they used to. They don't take time to really get to know each other, and to discuss all the really big issues.
But I also think that people see divorce much more as an option than people used to. Marriage vows don't seem to have the same meaning they once did. We are living in a throw-away society, and people treat marriage like anything else they feel they no longer need, so out it goes.
Some aren't willing to put the time and effort into working on relationships. Some are selfish in the decision to divorce and don't stop to think how it will affect children.
Some are affected by problems that don't seem to have been as rampant in our society in the past--drug addiction and violence being two of those issues. Those are problems that sometimes divorce is the only sane answer to.
Marriage is not easy, in fact a successful marriage requires a lot of work, from both parties. I think a lot of people don't realize that. Don't forget how many have not had good role models for marriage, either.
Because there are somethings that couples do not talk about before getting married to truly find out if they are compatable
1. Finacial Stability: One side of the relationship usually takes up the bill. Whick always create aggrevation on both sides.
2. Sex: One may want it all the time and the other may want it once in a while.
3. Relegion: One may be relegious the other may not be.
I could go one here but I don't want to right an essay.
It's true. Me and my fiance have a moto we live by. Act how you would if you were married while dating. Then there are no surprises when they say '; I do';
It depends, I know people that been dating for years, they get married and after a few months, the get divorced, then I know other couples (including my hubby %26amp; me) that we got married very soon after dating, and stay married for ever.
I think its because you still have something new to learning from your partner, but if you get married after so many years dating or even living together, what鈥檚 there to learn
becuase marriage causes laziness. your married why have to look your best or turn them out or take them out or show them a good time they will be there anyway (RIGHT) Wrong...
Because at least one of them is very weak and begins to blame all the natural problems of life on the spouse.
I THINK THEY BECOME TIRED OF THEIR SPOUSE.YOU NEED SPICE AND REAL LOVE TO STAY TOGETHER.
Many couples live together, marry, and then divorce so I think there's more to it. In my opinion, it's a lack understanding that a good marriage takes a lot of work. No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when you disagree. You've got to work things out together with the idea that are going to stay together no matter what and must find a solution to the problem that does not destroy your commitment to the marriage and each other. Do not marry with the idea that if it doesn't work out you can always divorce. That type of relationship, lacking commitment, is doomed to failure.
Thats a big part of it. But some people just want to be married and dont focus on the partner they have if its really the right one.
I mean after you get a couple red flags in the relationship you need to step back and take a look at things dont ever jump into a marriage without dating for a while and try living togeather a few months. Living togeather will really tell you what a person is like.
Because they are not willing to work through the tough times. It is easier to get a divorce, but it is harder to work through the bad times. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and life gets good again. Married 13 years, and happy. http://profiles.yahoo.com/gorillamyke
The #1 cause for divorce today is financial stress within the relationship. Men and women never get on the same page about the finances and get deeply into debt. Dave Ramsey has it going on.Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
i think so many of them rush into it. take your time get to know the person
Maybe it's because when you are married, you take your partner's love for granted and stop showing how much you love them and caring about your appearance. I think it's also harder to be with one person all the time than once in a while. Sometimes, after a day of hard work, people have less patience and can't avoid getting angry very easily. And when one person is in a bad mood, the other doesn't usually try to change it. Instead, they complain... Financial problems are also one of the reasons why people stop getting along. I think people should reflect about all this and try to be less selfish. Being understanding can solve lots of problems and keep love alive.
I think it is because divorce has became so easy. Marriage is not easy and takes some work. Instead of trying to work problems out it is just easier for some people to cut their losses and move on. Years ago divorce was only option in extreme circumstances, now anybody who has an ';unreconcilable difference'; can get divorced.
Well, I can tell you that the Christian divorce rate is as high as the secular (worldly) divorce rate.
So, because they seem to have little in commom, what would be the common link that would create this.
Many good churches with good people in them have a real problem and they share it with the world.
When two people get married, the world tears them apart, tells them they are individuals and should live their own lives, etc.
The church tells them that their marriage is sacred, and to keep it holy, and that they are now one flesh. But at the same time, the church will have the mens groups, and the ladies groups, and the mens retreats and the ladies retreats, mens only meetings, ladies only meetings. Get my point? How can you say someone is one flesh , and then your actions are to separate them whenever possible?
So the Church and the world have one major thing in commom that would keep their divorce rates equal to one another. They both divide the one flesh.
i like your answer..i also think that people today get married for the wrong reasons...lust not love...people also don't realize that over time people do change...so it's either both grow together ...or the other person will grow apart from the other one and find someone similar to them
You are right. I think it is mainly because they are not ready to get married when they do. Statistically, people are getting married WAY older than they used to when the baby boomers were around. We should see that divorce rate decline as people are now waiting till they are older to settle down.
Many differant reasons,
maybe jumping into it too soon and not ready.
Maybe being unfaithful.
maybe abuse.
The advent of the no-fault divorce.
People don't take it seriously. They jump in without thinking, and realizing that it isn't just about puppy love, and it requires work.
one big reason is because ppl mostly think that they are in love when in actiality they are just in love with the idea of a perfect, all-american life of wife, husband, 2 kids, a dog and the white picket fence.
unnatural act
People can take the sanity of spending maybe a few hours with each other but then when it comes down to maybe having to spend 9-17 hours with them becomes unbearable.
I think it is a lot more complicated than that. You would be right if people just jumped into marriage after a short period of dating. However, I can't see people being able to pretend they are someone else for a year or more. I think a lot of what happens is related to expectations and responsibilities. Life is hard enough but when you get married you are suddenly faced with a whole new set of responsibilities and expectations in addition to what already existed. A lot of people are just not prepared to deal with this. They struggle for a couple of years but never are really able to get a handle on things and it all just falls apart. I also think it is partially related to the fact that we have become more of a self focused culture. As a society now days we are more focused on what is good for us and what are we getting and what do we want. When you get married you have to change that what is in it for me to we and that isn't how we are taught to see life now days.
you are right, I got married 4 years ago my divorce was final in january..I don't beleive in marriage. I would not do it again
i have exactly the same thoughts as urs.. good view brother.. :) i totally agree with u
They are getting married for the wrong reasons..Some just want the feeling, experience of being married, some rush into something they are not ready for and dont take the time to get to know their partner before getting married....I was married for the wrong reasons and now I wont settle for anything less ..I want the whole Soul mate, partnership, love, passion, and being down for my man completely and solidly..no exceptions...
because they married 2 soon
They are excited by the idea of a wedding and the attention it brings and aren't aware of how much work goes into a marriage.
coz ppl get into a relation way to fast then marry way 2 fast and then diverce way to fast
get it
I think is what you say and more. A lot married people got married at a young age. Some in their teens. They don't know what a serious relationship is. Also, people get married out of ';love'; instead of understanding and compromising and learning that their partner is the one.
i think that marriage is a used up idea that doesn't fit anymore to our society's behavior.how can anyone expect to be faithful for all his life for example.its nonsense.and people are getting divorced mostly because of this.the man or woman were unfaithful and there it all ends.
I think you are partly right, and also that people marry sooner than they used to. They don't take time to really get to know each other, and to discuss all the really big issues.
But I also think that people see divorce much more as an option than people used to. Marriage vows don't seem to have the same meaning they once did. We are living in a throw-away society, and people treat marriage like anything else they feel they no longer need, so out it goes.
Some aren't willing to put the time and effort into working on relationships. Some are selfish in the decision to divorce and don't stop to think how it will affect children.
Some are affected by problems that don't seem to have been as rampant in our society in the past--drug addiction and violence being two of those issues. Those are problems that sometimes divorce is the only sane answer to.
Marriage is not easy, in fact a successful marriage requires a lot of work, from both parties. I think a lot of people don't realize that. Don't forget how many have not had good role models for marriage, either.
Because there are somethings that couples do not talk about before getting married to truly find out if they are compatable
1. Finacial Stability: One side of the relationship usually takes up the bill. Whick always create aggrevation on both sides.
2. Sex: One may want it all the time and the other may want it once in a while.
3. Relegion: One may be relegious the other may not be.
I could go one here but I don't want to right an essay.
It's true. Me and my fiance have a moto we live by. Act how you would if you were married while dating. Then there are no surprises when they say '; I do';
It depends, I know people that been dating for years, they get married and after a few months, the get divorced, then I know other couples (including my hubby %26amp; me) that we got married very soon after dating, and stay married for ever.
I think its because you still have something new to learning from your partner, but if you get married after so many years dating or even living together, what鈥檚 there to learn
becuase marriage causes laziness. your married why have to look your best or turn them out or take them out or show them a good time they will be there anyway (RIGHT) Wrong...
Because at least one of them is very weak and begins to blame all the natural problems of life on the spouse.
I THINK THEY BECOME TIRED OF THEIR SPOUSE.YOU NEED SPICE AND REAL LOVE TO STAY TOGETHER.
Many couples live together, marry, and then divorce so I think there's more to it. In my opinion, it's a lack understanding that a good marriage takes a lot of work. No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when you disagree. You've got to work things out together with the idea that are going to stay together no matter what and must find a solution to the problem that does not destroy your commitment to the marriage and each other. Do not marry with the idea that if it doesn't work out you can always divorce. That type of relationship, lacking commitment, is doomed to failure.
Thats a big part of it. But some people just want to be married and dont focus on the partner they have if its really the right one.
I mean after you get a couple red flags in the relationship you need to step back and take a look at things dont ever jump into a marriage without dating for a while and try living togeather a few months. Living togeather will really tell you what a person is like.
Because they are not willing to work through the tough times. It is easier to get a divorce, but it is harder to work through the bad times. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and life gets good again. Married 13 years, and happy. http://profiles.yahoo.com/gorillamyke
What are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
we dont want nothing nasty like foreplay pie or nothing something simple because we can't cook that well. Nothing with alfredo or pasta please.What are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
rice is so easy you would not believe it
pour 1 can chicken , beef or veggie broth in a pot then add 1/2 of the can filled with long grain rice(not minute or instant) bring just to boil on high then simmer tightly covered for twenty min on low heat dont peek or you'll end up with gummy rice
also try one can cream of whatever you like soup in a mixing bowl
add same can filled with milk and then fill it with rice(uncooked) then stir. add 1teaspoon pepper 1 teaspoon garlic powder and cooked ham, chicken, turkey, pork chops what ever I use leftovers from take away or deli meats also. dump into baking dish cover with foil wrap bake in oven 325 degree for 35 min uncover cook about 5-10 min more until browned slightly great tasting and cheap also.
thought of something else you know those packages of lipton rice and sauce or noodles and sauce? Add some ground beef browned and drained or any cooked meat and some veggies viola casseroleWhat are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
Why not try some stir frys you can use any meat you like and any vegetables you like, just slice your meat and vegies into similar sizes and have everything beside you, then heat up a pan until very hot. First stir fry meat in pan in small batches, until browned, then remove to bowl, then do same with vegies, now put meat back in to heat up and add the sauce of your choice, e.g. soy sauce, teriyaki sauce, or satay sauce. Just remember to have pan very hot and stir constantly. Good luck guys
rice is so easy you would not believe it
pour 1 can chicken , beef or veggie broth in a pot then add 1/2 of the can filled with long grain rice(not minute or instant) bring just to boil on high then simmer tightly covered for twenty min on low heat dont peek or you'll end up with gummy rice
also try one can cream of whatever you like soup in a mixing bowl
add same can filled with milk and then fill it with rice(uncooked) then stir. add 1teaspoon pepper 1 teaspoon garlic powder and cooked ham, chicken, turkey, pork chops what ever I use leftovers from take away or deli meats also. dump into baking dish cover with foil wrap bake in oven 325 degree for 35 min uncover cook about 5-10 min more until browned slightly great tasting and cheap also.
thought of something else you know those packages of lipton rice and sauce or noodles and sauce? Add some ground beef browned and drained or any cooked meat and some veggies viola casseroleWhat are good recipes for young couples (16-17)?
Why not try some stir frys you can use any meat you like and any vegetables you like, just slice your meat and vegies into similar sizes and have everything beside you, then heat up a pan until very hot. First stir fry meat in pan in small batches, until browned, then remove to bowl, then do same with vegies, now put meat back in to heat up and add the sauce of your choice, e.g. soy sauce, teriyaki sauce, or satay sauce. Just remember to have pan very hot and stir constantly. Good luck guys
In wich part of nyc is more common to see black women/white men couples ?
i promise that is the last really thx a lotIn wich part of nyc is more common to see black women/white men couples ?
Manhattan near Times SquareIn wich part of nyc is more common to see black women/white men couples ?
It's easier to say where you won't see them.
You won't see them on Governor's Island during the week.
You won't see them on Hoffman Island.
I see these types of couples in manhattan and brooklyn the most.
I dont think there is one spot that its any more common then another.
Just manhattan in general..
Manhattan near Times SquareIn wich part of nyc is more common to see black women/white men couples ?
It's easier to say where you won't see them.
You won't see them on Governor's Island during the week.
You won't see them on Hoffman Island.
I see these types of couples in manhattan and brooklyn the most.
I dont think there is one spot that its any more common then another.
Just manhattan in general..
Where can we meet with other couples socially?
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Do you get jealous of other couples?
Like you see someone's boyfriend or girlfriend and you think 'wow they're hot'
also, do you ever think ';ew, the person their dating is ugly';Do you get jealous of other couples?
I get jealous when i look in the mirrorDo you get jealous of other couples?
twas a joke lol
haha..im single so i dont get jealous of couples. tho sometimes if a girl is really pretty i do think to myself she cld get someone hotter. but then u have to remember its not about looks lol and cant help who ur heart falls for.
No
jealously isn't going to get me anywhere
Yeah
yeah.......i do wen i see sum HANDSOME GUY with a PRETTY GAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah
also, do you ever think ';ew, the person their dating is ugly';Do you get jealous of other couples?
I get jealous when i look in the mirrorDo you get jealous of other couples?
twas a joke lol
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haha..im single so i dont get jealous of couples. tho sometimes if a girl is really pretty i do think to myself she cld get someone hotter. but then u have to remember its not about looks lol and cant help who ur heart falls for.
No
jealously isn't going to get me anywhere
Yeah
yeah.......i do wen i see sum HANDSOME GUY with a PRETTY GAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah
Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
I think its becasue when people go out dating they are not themselves because they are constanly trying to impress their dates. So when they get married they finally act like themselves and are dissatisfied with how their lover really is. What do you think?Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
The #1 cause for divorce today is financial stress within the relationship. Men and women never get on the same page about the finances and get deeply into debt. Dave Ramsey has it going on.Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
i think so many of them rush into it. take your time get to know the person
Maybe it's because when you are married, you take your partner's love for granted and stop showing how much you love them and caring about your appearance. I think it's also harder to be with one person all the time than once in a while. Sometimes, after a day of hard work, people have less patience and can't avoid getting angry very easily. And when one person is in a bad mood, the other doesn't usually try to change it. Instead, they complain... Financial problems are also one of the reasons why people stop getting along. I think people should reflect about all this and try to be less selfish. Being understanding can solve lots of problems and keep love alive.
I think it is because divorce has became so easy. Marriage is not easy and takes some work. Instead of trying to work problems out it is just easier for some people to cut their losses and move on. Years ago divorce was only option in extreme circumstances, now anybody who has an ';unreconcilable difference'; can get divorced.
Well, I can tell you that the Christian divorce rate is as high as the secular (worldly) divorce rate.
So, because they seem to have little in commom, what would be the common link that would create this.
Many good churches with good people in them have a real problem and they share it with the world.
When two people get married, the world tears them apart, tells them they are individuals and should live their own lives, etc.
The church tells them that their marriage is sacred, and to keep it holy, and that they are now one flesh. But at the same time, the church will have the mens groups, and the ladies groups, and the mens retreats and the ladies retreats, mens only meetings, ladies only meetings. Get my point? How can you say someone is one flesh , and then your actions are to separate them whenever possible?
So the Church and the world have one major thing in commom that would keep their divorce rates equal to one another. They both divide the one flesh.
i like your answer..i also think that people today get married for the wrong reasons...lust not love...people also don't realize that over time people do change...so it's either both grow together ...or the other person will grow apart from the other one and find someone similar to them
You are right. I think it is mainly because they are not ready to get married when they do. Statistically, people are getting married WAY older than they used to when the baby boomers were around. We should see that divorce rate decline as people are now waiting till they are older to settle down.
Many differant reasons,
maybe jumping into it too soon and not ready.
Maybe being unfaithful.
maybe abuse.
The advent of the no-fault divorce.
People don't take it seriously. They jump in without thinking, and realizing that it isn't just about puppy love, and it requires work.
one big reason is because ppl mostly think that they are in love when in actiality they are just in love with the idea of a perfect, all-american life of wife, husband, 2 kids, a dog and the white picket fence.
unnatural act
People can take the sanity of spending maybe a few hours with each other but then when it comes down to maybe having to spend 9-17 hours with them becomes unbearable.
I think it is a lot more complicated than that. You would be right if people just jumped into marriage after a short period of dating. However, I can't see people being able to pretend they are someone else for a year or more. I think a lot of what happens is related to expectations and responsibilities. Life is hard enough but when you get married you are suddenly faced with a whole new set of responsibilities and expectations in addition to what already existed. A lot of people are just not prepared to deal with this. They struggle for a couple of years but never are really able to get a handle on things and it all just falls apart. I also think it is partially related to the fact that we have become more of a self focused culture. As a society now days we are more focused on what is good for us and what are we getting and what do we want. When you get married you have to change that what is in it for me to we and that isn't how we are taught to see life now days.
you are right, I got married 4 years ago my divorce was final in january..I don't beleive in marriage. I would not do it again
i have exactly the same thoughts as urs.. good view brother.. :) i totally agree with u
They are getting married for the wrong reasons..Some just want the feeling, experience of being married, some rush into something they are not ready for and dont take the time to get to know their partner before getting married....I was married for the wrong reasons and now I wont settle for anything less ..I want the whole Soul mate, partnership, love, passion, and being down for my man completely and solidly..no exceptions...
because they married 2 soon
They are excited by the idea of a wedding and the attention it brings and aren't aware of how much work goes into a marriage.
coz ppl get into a relation way to fast then marry way 2 fast and then diverce way to fast
get it
I think is what you say and more. A lot married people got married at a young age. Some in their teens. They don't know what a serious relationship is. Also, people get married out of ';love'; instead of understanding and compromising and learning that their partner is the one.
i think that marriage is a used up idea that doesn't fit anymore to our society's behavior.how can anyone expect to be faithful for all his life for example.its nonsense.and people are getting divorced mostly because of this.the man or woman were unfaithful and there it all ends.
I think you are partly right, and also that people marry sooner than they used to. They don't take time to really get to know each other, and to discuss all the really big issues.
But I also think that people see divorce much more as an option than people used to. Marriage vows don't seem to have the same meaning they once did. We are living in a throw-away society, and people treat marriage like anything else they feel they no longer need, so out it goes.
Some aren't willing to put the time and effort into working on relationships. Some are selfish in the decision to divorce and don't stop to think how it will affect children.
Some are affected by problems that don't seem to have been as rampant in our society in the past--drug addiction and violence being two of those issues. Those are problems that sometimes divorce is the only sane answer to.
Marriage is not easy, in fact a successful marriage requires a lot of work, from both parties. I think a lot of people don't realize that. Don't forget how many have not had good role models for marriage, either.
Because there are somethings that couples do not talk about before getting married to truly find out if they are compatable
1. Finacial Stability: One side of the relationship usually takes up the bill. Whick always create aggrevation on both sides.
2. Sex: One may want it all the time and the other may want it once in a while.
3. Relegion: One may be relegious the other may not be.
I could go one here but I don't want to right an essay.
It's true. Me and my fiance have a moto we live by. Act how you would if you were married while dating. Then there are no surprises when they say '; I do';
It depends, I know people that been dating for years, they get married and after a few months, the get divorced, then I know other couples (including my hubby %26amp; me) that we got married very soon after dating, and stay married for ever.
I think its because you still have something new to learning from your partner, but if you get married after so many years dating or even living together, what鈥檚 there to learn
becuase marriage causes laziness. your married why have to look your best or turn them out or take them out or show them a good time they will be there anyway (RIGHT) Wrong...
Because at least one of them is very weak and begins to blame all the natural problems of life on the spouse.
I THINK THEY BECOME TIRED OF THEIR SPOUSE.YOU NEED SPICE AND REAL LOVE TO STAY TOGETHER.
Many couples live together, marry, and then divorce so I think there's more to it. In my opinion, it's a lack understanding that a good marriage takes a lot of work. No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when you disagree. You've got to work things out together with the idea that are going to stay together no matter what and must find a solution to the problem that does not destroy your commitment to the marriage and each other. Do not marry with the idea that if it doesn't work out you can always divorce. That type of relationship, lacking commitment, is doomed to failure.
Thats a big part of it. But some people just want to be married and dont focus on the partner they have if its really the right one.
I mean after you get a couple red flags in the relationship you need to step back and take a look at things dont ever jump into a marriage without dating for a while and try living togeather a few months. Living togeather will really tell you what a person is like.
Because they are not willing to work through the tough times. It is easier to get a divorce, but it is harder to work through the bad times. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and life gets good again. Married 13 years, and happy. http://profiles.yahoo.com/gorillamykeconsumables
The #1 cause for divorce today is financial stress within the relationship. Men and women never get on the same page about the finances and get deeply into debt. Dave Ramsey has it going on.Why do you think so many couples who get married end up divorced?
i think so many of them rush into it. take your time get to know the person
Maybe it's because when you are married, you take your partner's love for granted and stop showing how much you love them and caring about your appearance. I think it's also harder to be with one person all the time than once in a while. Sometimes, after a day of hard work, people have less patience and can't avoid getting angry very easily. And when one person is in a bad mood, the other doesn't usually try to change it. Instead, they complain... Financial problems are also one of the reasons why people stop getting along. I think people should reflect about all this and try to be less selfish. Being understanding can solve lots of problems and keep love alive.
I think it is because divorce has became so easy. Marriage is not easy and takes some work. Instead of trying to work problems out it is just easier for some people to cut their losses and move on. Years ago divorce was only option in extreme circumstances, now anybody who has an ';unreconcilable difference'; can get divorced.
Well, I can tell you that the Christian divorce rate is as high as the secular (worldly) divorce rate.
So, because they seem to have little in commom, what would be the common link that would create this.
Many good churches with good people in them have a real problem and they share it with the world.
When two people get married, the world tears them apart, tells them they are individuals and should live their own lives, etc.
The church tells them that their marriage is sacred, and to keep it holy, and that they are now one flesh. But at the same time, the church will have the mens groups, and the ladies groups, and the mens retreats and the ladies retreats, mens only meetings, ladies only meetings. Get my point? How can you say someone is one flesh , and then your actions are to separate them whenever possible?
So the Church and the world have one major thing in commom that would keep their divorce rates equal to one another. They both divide the one flesh.
i like your answer..i also think that people today get married for the wrong reasons...lust not love...people also don't realize that over time people do change...so it's either both grow together ...or the other person will grow apart from the other one and find someone similar to them
You are right. I think it is mainly because they are not ready to get married when they do. Statistically, people are getting married WAY older than they used to when the baby boomers were around. We should see that divorce rate decline as people are now waiting till they are older to settle down.
Many differant reasons,
maybe jumping into it too soon and not ready.
Maybe being unfaithful.
maybe abuse.
The advent of the no-fault divorce.
People don't take it seriously. They jump in without thinking, and realizing that it isn't just about puppy love, and it requires work.
one big reason is because ppl mostly think that they are in love when in actiality they are just in love with the idea of a perfect, all-american life of wife, husband, 2 kids, a dog and the white picket fence.
unnatural act
People can take the sanity of spending maybe a few hours with each other but then when it comes down to maybe having to spend 9-17 hours with them becomes unbearable.
I think it is a lot more complicated than that. You would be right if people just jumped into marriage after a short period of dating. However, I can't see people being able to pretend they are someone else for a year or more. I think a lot of what happens is related to expectations and responsibilities. Life is hard enough but when you get married you are suddenly faced with a whole new set of responsibilities and expectations in addition to what already existed. A lot of people are just not prepared to deal with this. They struggle for a couple of years but never are really able to get a handle on things and it all just falls apart. I also think it is partially related to the fact that we have become more of a self focused culture. As a society now days we are more focused on what is good for us and what are we getting and what do we want. When you get married you have to change that what is in it for me to we and that isn't how we are taught to see life now days.
you are right, I got married 4 years ago my divorce was final in january..I don't beleive in marriage. I would not do it again
i have exactly the same thoughts as urs.. good view brother.. :) i totally agree with u
They are getting married for the wrong reasons..Some just want the feeling, experience of being married, some rush into something they are not ready for and dont take the time to get to know their partner before getting married....I was married for the wrong reasons and now I wont settle for anything less ..I want the whole Soul mate, partnership, love, passion, and being down for my man completely and solidly..no exceptions...
because they married 2 soon
They are excited by the idea of a wedding and the attention it brings and aren't aware of how much work goes into a marriage.
coz ppl get into a relation way to fast then marry way 2 fast and then diverce way to fast
get it
I think is what you say and more. A lot married people got married at a young age. Some in their teens. They don't know what a serious relationship is. Also, people get married out of ';love'; instead of understanding and compromising and learning that their partner is the one.
i think that marriage is a used up idea that doesn't fit anymore to our society's behavior.how can anyone expect to be faithful for all his life for example.its nonsense.and people are getting divorced mostly because of this.the man or woman were unfaithful and there it all ends.
I think you are partly right, and also that people marry sooner than they used to. They don't take time to really get to know each other, and to discuss all the really big issues.
But I also think that people see divorce much more as an option than people used to. Marriage vows don't seem to have the same meaning they once did. We are living in a throw-away society, and people treat marriage like anything else they feel they no longer need, so out it goes.
Some aren't willing to put the time and effort into working on relationships. Some are selfish in the decision to divorce and don't stop to think how it will affect children.
Some are affected by problems that don't seem to have been as rampant in our society in the past--drug addiction and violence being two of those issues. Those are problems that sometimes divorce is the only sane answer to.
Marriage is not easy, in fact a successful marriage requires a lot of work, from both parties. I think a lot of people don't realize that. Don't forget how many have not had good role models for marriage, either.
Because there are somethings that couples do not talk about before getting married to truly find out if they are compatable
1. Finacial Stability: One side of the relationship usually takes up the bill. Whick always create aggrevation on both sides.
2. Sex: One may want it all the time and the other may want it once in a while.
3. Relegion: One may be relegious the other may not be.
I could go one here but I don't want to right an essay.
It's true. Me and my fiance have a moto we live by. Act how you would if you were married while dating. Then there are no surprises when they say '; I do';
It depends, I know people that been dating for years, they get married and after a few months, the get divorced, then I know other couples (including my hubby %26amp; me) that we got married very soon after dating, and stay married for ever.
I think its because you still have something new to learning from your partner, but if you get married after so many years dating or even living together, what鈥檚 there to learn
becuase marriage causes laziness. your married why have to look your best or turn them out or take them out or show them a good time they will be there anyway (RIGHT) Wrong...
Because at least one of them is very weak and begins to blame all the natural problems of life on the spouse.
I THINK THEY BECOME TIRED OF THEIR SPOUSE.YOU NEED SPICE AND REAL LOVE TO STAY TOGETHER.
Many couples live together, marry, and then divorce so I think there's more to it. In my opinion, it's a lack understanding that a good marriage takes a lot of work. No matter how much you love each other, there will be times when you disagree. You've got to work things out together with the idea that are going to stay together no matter what and must find a solution to the problem that does not destroy your commitment to the marriage and each other. Do not marry with the idea that if it doesn't work out you can always divorce. That type of relationship, lacking commitment, is doomed to failure.
Thats a big part of it. But some people just want to be married and dont focus on the partner they have if its really the right one.
I mean after you get a couple red flags in the relationship you need to step back and take a look at things dont ever jump into a marriage without dating for a while and try living togeather a few months. Living togeather will really tell you what a person is like.
Because they are not willing to work through the tough times. It is easier to get a divorce, but it is harder to work through the bad times. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and life gets good again. Married 13 years, and happy. http://profiles.yahoo.com/gorillamyke
Is there any libra and cancer couples that are happy??
bcuz they always say that this match isnt so good i was wondering if it really is tru...im a libra and my bf is a cancer, we are happy but we have our little problems Is there any libra and cancer couples that are happy??
That reminds me of my sista Libra and her hubby cancer. LOL Libra knows what he wants all the tine. She is happy when the relation works and ummm manages this well. Cancer thinks that he can settle this lady down. OMG, No way. She needs more than domestic stuff and not that she hates the home and anything like that hon, it's just that you can't push Libra to like it. Cancer better have good intellectual stimulation to keep this babe from getting bored. Cancer sulks and this is a no no for Libra.Is there any libra and cancer couples that are happy??
well, i am not a libra, and my man is not a cancer.. but we kinda are in the same situation. cause im a gemini and hes a pisces.. so air and water match. and i agree with you totally. people always say air and water signs dont go together, but me and my baby have been together for almost a year (NEXT WEEK!) and we couldnt be any happier as well. hmm, idn maybe they should reconsider their evaluations.
Yup Yup my bf is a cancer and i'am of course a libra....he will do anything for me and is the sweetest guyl!! At times he can be too sensitive and clingy but we work thru it. He works offshore so he is gone for a few weeks at a time i actually think that may help lol....
anyway we love each other and he is on his way home bc of the hurricane coming...yea!!:)
Astrology doesn't only depend on the sun sign. There are other stars to match up to. So maybe your rising and his rising make a good match, or your moons, etc.
I'm an Aquarius(air sign), and I've dated a Cancer before. We were a disaster. :[
We fought EVERYDAY and then we left eachother for good. But it's mostly because our moons was a bad match, our rising and also our venus%26amp;mars.
So check your birth charts first!
You can try this site for it:
http://www.alabe.com/freechart
Good Luck.
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Cancer rising
Aquarius sun
Aries moon
That reminds me of my sista Libra and her hubby cancer. LOL Libra knows what he wants all the tine. She is happy when the relation works and ummm manages this well. Cancer thinks that he can settle this lady down. OMG, No way. She needs more than domestic stuff and not that she hates the home and anything like that hon, it's just that you can't push Libra to like it. Cancer better have good intellectual stimulation to keep this babe from getting bored. Cancer sulks and this is a no no for Libra.Is there any libra and cancer couples that are happy??
well, i am not a libra, and my man is not a cancer.. but we kinda are in the same situation. cause im a gemini and hes a pisces.. so air and water match. and i agree with you totally. people always say air and water signs dont go together, but me and my baby have been together for almost a year (NEXT WEEK!) and we couldnt be any happier as well. hmm, idn maybe they should reconsider their evaluations.
Yup Yup my bf is a cancer and i'am of course a libra....he will do anything for me and is the sweetest guyl!! At times he can be too sensitive and clingy but we work thru it. He works offshore so he is gone for a few weeks at a time i actually think that may help lol....
anyway we love each other and he is on his way home bc of the hurricane coming...yea!!:)
Astrology doesn't only depend on the sun sign. There are other stars to match up to. So maybe your rising and his rising make a good match, or your moons, etc.
I'm an Aquarius(air sign), and I've dated a Cancer before. We were a disaster. :[
We fought EVERYDAY and then we left eachother for good. But it's mostly because our moons was a bad match, our rising and also our venus%26amp;mars.
So check your birth charts first!
You can try this site for it:
http://www.alabe.com/freechart
Good Luck.
鈾.
Cancer rising
Aquarius sun
Aries moon
How many times should newly wed couples have sex per week ? What if the sex is boring and monotone ?
There is no fixed answer to this question. It sounds like you are not satisfied with the quantity and quality of the sex you are having. First, try to spice things up a bit. Toys are a great way to start or just try something different and spontaneous. The best answer may be (and I hate answers that say this) to go seek professional help from a sex therapist. If the sex is rare and monotone then your partner is probably not thrilled with the arrangement either.How many times should newly wed couples have sex per week ? What if the sex is boring and monotone ?
as many times as you please! and spice it up, try late at night in the park or in the car, fruit wipping cream, blind folds there are lots of things that you can do.How many times should newly wed couples have sex per week ? What if the sex is boring and monotone ?
3 x aday (3x7=21 at least)
At least three times a week as a newlywed, otherwise you're in trouble.
depending on their mood and lots of other factor.....................
if you bear it go for 24 hours..........we don't mind............but if you are boring then go for romance only............but let me tell why you want do any thing what makes you bared..........
EVERY HOUR I KNOW THATS WHAT IM GONNA DO!!
They should have sex as many times as both consentually want to. If it is boring and monotonous, perhaps reading books about different things to do during sex may help. There are also toys and such...
Have a newlywed orgy.
exactly 15.75 times. anymore, you'll die. anyless. you wont have lived. go now and bang the **** out of each other.
The question should be ';How many times a day?';
If you are unhappy with your sex life already then get the marriage annulled before the cheating starts as it surely will. It will be less painfull and much cheaper the sooned you do it!
And now this should exemplify why many of us advocate pre-marital sex. I mean really, man or woman, you wouldn't buy a car you hadn't taken for a test drive would you? You just don't let everyone drive the car that comes by and asks though!
Try different positions, techniques, vary the type of sex, read up on it, try some videos. Use your imagination, millions of people are having a ball!!!
How many times is up to the newlyweds. If it's boring and monotone, rent or get some pornos and watch them with your partner tp get some new ideas on how to spice it up. Or if you don't want to watch pornos, get a book on how to spice it up.
I have never had monotone sex. I have had monotonous
sex, however.
spice it up!
oh no, spice it up rent the movies get some toys change positions do something that should not start now have fun with each other learn each other. Suprise, it should be an adventure not a chore. Think of a fantasy and what the heck try it dont hold nothing back.
Depends on the couple. My newlywed husband and i go in spurts. Like sometimes its twice a day everyday, some times its like once a week. Spice it up! Work with each other. Go out on 'dates' where you go to your moms, get ready there, look sexy, and have him pick u up like a real date. during the night, (dinner %26amp; drinks) ask him what color underwear youre wearing. If he gets it thenhe gets this (whatever it is) but then tell him you dont have any on. I dontknow. mabie you guys arent that type, but when i feel things are mediocre, we do things like that. But dont panic. ITS TOTALLY NORMAL to go through those times. You are fine....if its like for 2 or 3 months where its real boring, then spice it up. Sometimes it just happens that way. It doesnt have to be perfect all the time. Dont expect constant 'new %26amp; passionate' sex. Geeze, like 30% of the time, its when im horney and my husbands not or vice versa and we're just like ok do it so i can sleep!
I have always heard put a penny in a jar everytime you have sex the first year you are married. Then, take a penny out of the jar everytime you have sex after that first year and you will never get all of the pennies out of the jar!
If sex is boring and monotone, do something different!
21 times per week :)
Spice it up
Talk to each other.
Have sex as much as you like!!! If things are boring add some spice! www.heathercoleman.pureromance.com
Enjoy!!!
as many times as you please! and spice it up, try late at night in the park or in the car, fruit wipping cream, blind folds there are lots of things that you can do.How many times should newly wed couples have sex per week ? What if the sex is boring and monotone ?
3 x aday (3x7=21 at least)
At least three times a week as a newlywed, otherwise you're in trouble.
depending on their mood and lots of other factor.....................
if you bear it go for 24 hours..........we don't mind............but if you are boring then go for romance only............but let me tell why you want do any thing what makes you bared..........
EVERY HOUR I KNOW THATS WHAT IM GONNA DO!!
They should have sex as many times as both consentually want to. If it is boring and monotonous, perhaps reading books about different things to do during sex may help. There are also toys and such...
Have a newlywed orgy.
exactly 15.75 times. anymore, you'll die. anyless. you wont have lived. go now and bang the **** out of each other.
The question should be ';How many times a day?';
If you are unhappy with your sex life already then get the marriage annulled before the cheating starts as it surely will. It will be less painfull and much cheaper the sooned you do it!
And now this should exemplify why many of us advocate pre-marital sex. I mean really, man or woman, you wouldn't buy a car you hadn't taken for a test drive would you? You just don't let everyone drive the car that comes by and asks though!
Try different positions, techniques, vary the type of sex, read up on it, try some videos. Use your imagination, millions of people are having a ball!!!
How many times is up to the newlyweds. If it's boring and monotone, rent or get some pornos and watch them with your partner tp get some new ideas on how to spice it up. Or if you don't want to watch pornos, get a book on how to spice it up.
I have never had monotone sex. I have had monotonous
sex, however.
spice it up!
oh no, spice it up rent the movies get some toys change positions do something that should not start now have fun with each other learn each other. Suprise, it should be an adventure not a chore. Think of a fantasy and what the heck try it dont hold nothing back.
Depends on the couple. My newlywed husband and i go in spurts. Like sometimes its twice a day everyday, some times its like once a week. Spice it up! Work with each other. Go out on 'dates' where you go to your moms, get ready there, look sexy, and have him pick u up like a real date. during the night, (dinner %26amp; drinks) ask him what color underwear youre wearing. If he gets it thenhe gets this (whatever it is) but then tell him you dont have any on. I dontknow. mabie you guys arent that type, but when i feel things are mediocre, we do things like that. But dont panic. ITS TOTALLY NORMAL to go through those times. You are fine....if its like for 2 or 3 months where its real boring, then spice it up. Sometimes it just happens that way. It doesnt have to be perfect all the time. Dont expect constant 'new %26amp; passionate' sex. Geeze, like 30% of the time, its when im horney and my husbands not or vice versa and we're just like ok do it so i can sleep!
I have always heard put a penny in a jar everytime you have sex the first year you are married. Then, take a penny out of the jar everytime you have sex after that first year and you will never get all of the pennies out of the jar!
If sex is boring and monotone, do something different!
21 times per week :)
Spice it up
Talk to each other.
Have sex as much as you like!!! If things are boring add some spice! www.heathercoleman.pureromance.com
Enjoy!!!
Are there any websites for married couples to make friends? If so, what are they?
http://www.plentyoffish.com/Are there any websites for married couples to make friends? If so, what are they?
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What is the movie where the black guy is shining his light into the couples house, and it gets scary?
lakeview terrace http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Rl9BTmN2鈥?/a> here's a link to the trailer
Are unmarried straight couples given the smae rights as gay couples for example domestic partner benefits?
Is there domestic partnership benefits at all in OhioAre unmarried straight couples given the smae rights as gay couples for example domestic partner benefits?
Actually, it probably depends on how the Summary Plan Document, or contract, is written.
Unless required by state law, coverage or exclusion of unmarried partners (hetero or same sex) is up to the decision-makers of each company. In the midwest, I kinda doubt it would be provided.
Ask your employer or look it up in your insurance booklet.Are unmarried straight couples given the smae rights as gay couples for example domestic partner benefits?
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Not sure about Ohio, but in Michigan there is commonlaw marriage where you have lived with someone of the opposite sex for 7 years. In the common law marriage you are given domestic partner benefits.
Your question implies a fallacy though, gays are not allowed domestic partner benefits in Ohio. They have one of the more extreme anti-gay partnership laws out there. Similar to Michigan.
I think Ohio changed the domestic violence law so that it no longer applies to unmarried couples. but generally I don't think Ohio recognizes domestic partnerships
Do an internet search - Go to your state's website, also check out the company you work for.
Actually, it probably depends on how the Summary Plan Document, or contract, is written.
Unless required by state law, coverage or exclusion of unmarried partners (hetero or same sex) is up to the decision-makers of each company. In the midwest, I kinda doubt it would be provided.
Ask your employer or look it up in your insurance booklet.Are unmarried straight couples given the smae rights as gay couples for example domestic partner benefits?
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Not sure about Ohio, but in Michigan there is commonlaw marriage where you have lived with someone of the opposite sex for 7 years. In the common law marriage you are given domestic partner benefits.
Your question implies a fallacy though, gays are not allowed domestic partner benefits in Ohio. They have one of the more extreme anti-gay partnership laws out there. Similar to Michigan.
I think Ohio changed the domestic violence law so that it no longer applies to unmarried couples. but generally I don't think Ohio recognizes domestic partnerships
Do an internet search - Go to your state's website, also check out the company you work for.
What the percentage pf divorce couples actually still remain friends? Most are enemies!!!?
It depends on how the marriage ends. If both realize it needs to end they are more apt to be friends (especially if they have kids) If the marriage ends in anger then yes they will probally be more like enemies.What the percentage pf divorce couples actually still remain friends? Most are enemies!!!?
depends on the People and the circumstances. I would say that most people that divorce can be civil but being the bond that brought them together has been broken, the relationship is better off being left alone with a civil hello once in a while and move on.What the percentage pf divorce couples actually still remain friends? Most are enemies!!!?
I'm not enemies with my ex. I'm not his friend either. I think if you're good enough to be close friends you're good enough to stay and work that marriage out. We are civil to each other and don't cause each other problems or headaches.
in my case me and the ex aren't friends..... i wouldn't say we are enemies i just don't care about her that why she is the ex
Well, my first ex and I are cordial, but not friends. I don't think that I will ever be able to be even friendly with my second. He is psycho.
I have a restraining order against mine for my own safety.consumables
depends on the People and the circumstances. I would say that most people that divorce can be civil but being the bond that brought them together has been broken, the relationship is better off being left alone with a civil hello once in a while and move on.What the percentage pf divorce couples actually still remain friends? Most are enemies!!!?
I'm not enemies with my ex. I'm not his friend either. I think if you're good enough to be close friends you're good enough to stay and work that marriage out. We are civil to each other and don't cause each other problems or headaches.
in my case me and the ex aren't friends..... i wouldn't say we are enemies i just don't care about her that why she is the ex
Well, my first ex and I are cordial, but not friends. I don't think that I will ever be able to be even friendly with my second. He is psycho.
I have a restraining order against mine for my own safety.
What does it mean when couples argue back and forth about who loves who more?
i really want 2 know if this is true love or puppy loveWhat does it mean when couples argue back and forth about who loves who more?
It means they might have too much time on their hands? True love takes time to develop but I'm fairly certain it can start with Puppy love, just have to work at it and see how you do through tough times.What does it mean when couples argue back and forth about who loves who more?
It's annoying is what it is.
I've seen people in puppy love and true love do it.
Edit: I hate the phrase ';true love.'; Who is to decide if someone really loves someone enough for it to be ';real';? I know when I was 14 and ';going out with'; that guy, I was absolutely in love with him--and just because I don't feel the same way now doesn't mean I didn't truly love him then.
in puppy love its just for fun.. and its kind cute.. in TRUE love it becomes sthing that you want to hear from ur partner , if he/ she is telling u that they love u MORE .. its just a reassurance thing i mean im sure most ppl in a relationship wld prefer to be loved more than u loving them for security reasons.
it means that you 2 trully love eachother wether its puppy love or true love but you guys atleast know you got in you ...and tht you2 care 4 each other.....its great 2 see ppl like this....in a way its uh-mazingly cute...i do think its puppy love but sooner or l8er it will be way more!!
It can be either or... but it is sort of a game that my boyfriend and I play. We both know that we love each other a lot. He is 29 and I am 28. Something we have always done pretty much since day 1. We are getting married in 2 years.
TRUE Love does not forbid such arguments. It is proved only when the relationship is better after the face-off.
Couples have different ways to express themselves in their truest form.
it can be either, just its kinda cute and jokingly when a couple argues about that.
i'm kinda worried cause when i say ';i love you more'; to my girldfriend she says ';i know';
to tel you the truth if they argue about it its puppy love. bc if they realy loved the other person they would let that person love them more.
It means incredible insecurity.
It's pretty sweet, really.
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Puppy love. Means they are immature.
puppy love
it means that yall have too much spare time...
LOVE IS LOVE
BULL SHIITT IS WHAT IT IS.
BEST
that you both secretly hate each other.
I think it's cute.
It means they might have too much time on their hands? True love takes time to develop but I'm fairly certain it can start with Puppy love, just have to work at it and see how you do through tough times.What does it mean when couples argue back and forth about who loves who more?
It's annoying is what it is.
I've seen people in puppy love and true love do it.
Edit: I hate the phrase ';true love.'; Who is to decide if someone really loves someone enough for it to be ';real';? I know when I was 14 and ';going out with'; that guy, I was absolutely in love with him--and just because I don't feel the same way now doesn't mean I didn't truly love him then.
in puppy love its just for fun.. and its kind cute.. in TRUE love it becomes sthing that you want to hear from ur partner , if he/ she is telling u that they love u MORE .. its just a reassurance thing i mean im sure most ppl in a relationship wld prefer to be loved more than u loving them for security reasons.
it means that you 2 trully love eachother wether its puppy love or true love but you guys atleast know you got in you ...and tht you2 care 4 each other.....its great 2 see ppl like this....in a way its uh-mazingly cute...i do think its puppy love but sooner or l8er it will be way more!!
It can be either or... but it is sort of a game that my boyfriend and I play. We both know that we love each other a lot. He is 29 and I am 28. Something we have always done pretty much since day 1. We are getting married in 2 years.
TRUE Love does not forbid such arguments. It is proved only when the relationship is better after the face-off.
Couples have different ways to express themselves in their truest form.
it can be either, just its kinda cute and jokingly when a couple argues about that.
i'm kinda worried cause when i say ';i love you more'; to my girldfriend she says ';i know';
to tel you the truth if they argue about it its puppy love. bc if they realy loved the other person they would let that person love them more.
It means incredible insecurity.
It's pretty sweet, really.
G
Puppy love. Means they are immature.
puppy love
it means that yall have too much spare time...
LOVE IS LOVE
BULL SHIITT IS WHAT IT IS.
BEST
that you both secretly hate each other.
I think it's cute.
Why do so many catholic couples Live together without being Married?
Catholics have an extraordinary ability to doublethinkWhy do so many catholic couples Live together without being Married?
To see if they get along when they're living together. To find out the other persons quirks and habits and sex styles - to find out if the marriage will work or if they'll annoy the hell out of each other and end up miserable and/or divorced. Everyone should try that.Why do so many catholic couples Live together without being Married?
For exactly the same reason Catholic women ignore the Vatican's ruling on birth control--because they are human.
Do you have statistics to back this up, or are you just making it up.
Why do so many Baptist couples, Lutheran couples, and non-denominational couples Live together without being Married?
For exactly the same reasons as anyone else does.
The majority of the Catholic couples that I know are all married
Do you think it's only Catholic couples who do that?
';Why do so many (insert religious or ethnic group here) couples live together without being married?';
You can ask this question about any group of people. Any particular reason why you're singling out the Catholics?
.
Probably for the same reason it is rare for a priest to remain celibate. The Church's rules are ridiculous. They force many to lead lives of hypocrisy, because people are just not meant to be alone. And whether a couple is living together, legally married or married ';in the church'; is no business of anyone's except those involved. The same applies to the use of birth control.
They have been mislead, by a society that refuses to negatively judge bad behavior, into thinking cohabitation is a good idea - even though it is so obviously against the moral order of the Catholic Church.
It should be noted that non-married Catholics couples are not the only couples engaged in cohabitation.
the tax code does not favor marriage. they are taxed more.
i dont know but i dont really like that
Why do couples of any denomination live together, cause for many marriage changes things, or they have already been there and done that.
because they, like most of the ';Christian'; no married living together couples, aren't steeped enough in their faith to understand what a disservice they are doing to themselves.
It's not a fundie religion. The priests don't check up on you. I know so many ';Catholics'; that only go to mass on Christmas and Easter. It's a part time religion for most at best.
They may or not be aware that living together without being married is a mortal sin. They need to confess their sin to a priest and stop sinning.
Probably because they want to make sure they can get along under the same roof before tying the knot. My mom and I lived with my step dad for almost a year before they even thought of getting married. Go figure.
Because they choose to, that's their right to do so.
To see if they get along when they're living together. To find out the other persons quirks and habits and sex styles - to find out if the marriage will work or if they'll annoy the hell out of each other and end up miserable and/or divorced. Everyone should try that.Why do so many catholic couples Live together without being Married?
For exactly the same reason Catholic women ignore the Vatican's ruling on birth control--because they are human.
Do you have statistics to back this up, or are you just making it up.
Why do so many Baptist couples, Lutheran couples, and non-denominational couples Live together without being Married?
For exactly the same reasons as anyone else does.
The majority of the Catholic couples that I know are all married
Do you think it's only Catholic couples who do that?
';Why do so many (insert religious or ethnic group here) couples live together without being married?';
You can ask this question about any group of people. Any particular reason why you're singling out the Catholics?
.
Probably for the same reason it is rare for a priest to remain celibate. The Church's rules are ridiculous. They force many to lead lives of hypocrisy, because people are just not meant to be alone. And whether a couple is living together, legally married or married ';in the church'; is no business of anyone's except those involved. The same applies to the use of birth control.
They have been mislead, by a society that refuses to negatively judge bad behavior, into thinking cohabitation is a good idea - even though it is so obviously against the moral order of the Catholic Church.
It should be noted that non-married Catholics couples are not the only couples engaged in cohabitation.
the tax code does not favor marriage. they are taxed more.
i dont know but i dont really like that
Why do couples of any denomination live together, cause for many marriage changes things, or they have already been there and done that.
because they, like most of the ';Christian'; no married living together couples, aren't steeped enough in their faith to understand what a disservice they are doing to themselves.
It's not a fundie religion. The priests don't check up on you. I know so many ';Catholics'; that only go to mass on Christmas and Easter. It's a part time religion for most at best.
They may or not be aware that living together without being married is a mortal sin. They need to confess their sin to a priest and stop sinning.
Probably because they want to make sure they can get along under the same roof before tying the knot. My mom and I lived with my step dad for almost a year before they even thought of getting married. Go figure.
Because they choose to, that's their right to do so.
What can you advice the couples of 41-45 age to do about sex?
Think about mileage sex!What can you advice the couples of 41-45 age to do about sex?
Just do it! Don't make exceptions because of age, it just may be a little slower.....which isn't really a bad thing now is it? LOLWhat can you advice the couples of 41-45 age to do about sex?
Enjoy it !! You are both old enough to know that you have some fantasies that need to be explored, with each other, assuming that you haven't been with one another for the long haul. Open your minds, open your your feelings. Have a good time. Watch something softcore or hard core (depending on your feelings) GET WILD, GET CRAZY..........GET OFF !!!
ya ll haven't heard!!! the 40's are the new 30's. take advantage of getting 5 to 10yrs put back on your sex life. just make sure no bones will break. test yourselves and see what kinda smiles it puts on ya face B-)
You should be experts by now and giving everyone advise.
If you need new experience, watch some hardcore porn.
I am 42 and let me tell you sex is better now then when I was in my 20s! I am at my peek LOL MY fiance is younger then me and sex is truly beautiful
I'm quite an expert on this subject, had plenty of practise and don't need any advice. But thanks, anyway.
Keep having sex.
k bauht ho gye hun aram kero
Just do it! Don't make exceptions because of age, it just may be a little slower.....which isn't really a bad thing now is it? LOLWhat can you advice the couples of 41-45 age to do about sex?
Enjoy it !! You are both old enough to know that you have some fantasies that need to be explored, with each other, assuming that you haven't been with one another for the long haul. Open your minds, open your your feelings. Have a good time. Watch something softcore or hard core (depending on your feelings) GET WILD, GET CRAZY..........GET OFF !!!
ya ll haven't heard!!! the 40's are the new 30's. take advantage of getting 5 to 10yrs put back on your sex life. just make sure no bones will break. test yourselves and see what kinda smiles it puts on ya face B-)
You should be experts by now and giving everyone advise.
If you need new experience, watch some hardcore porn.
I am 42 and let me tell you sex is better now then when I was in my 20s! I am at my peek LOL MY fiance is younger then me and sex is truly beautiful
I'm quite an expert on this subject, had plenty of practise and don't need any advice. But thanks, anyway.
Keep having sex.
k bauht ho gye hun aram kero
Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
My husband has moved out. Prior to the break up he said he was no longer attracted to me and hadn't had sex with me for 5 months. Now he's gone. He cheated on me 7 years ago and its never been right ever since. He didnt want to try therapy. So I think its time to move on. Will I be penalized by a judge if I start dating? Two men have already asked me for a date and its only been 5 days since my husband left. I don't like those guys but what if someone comes along that I do like? We have been married for 17 yrs and have three kids. No property.Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
No. Separated isn't divorced, so dating would still be adultery.Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
Not a good idea to date while u are separated...he ll use it against u in court to ask for custody etc....wait until the divorce is FINAL.....be patient....
There's more to this story than you are revealing obviously. If you want to move on file for divorce asap.
There are several questions in my mind here. You didn't specify if youre in the process of getting a divorce... (but I'm guessing you are since you mentioned a judge)anyway, are you in California?... where there's a no fault law.... do you worry about your religion? Is it against your religion?
I really think youre old enough to figure this question out. You see, if you yourself mentioned that you think it's time to move on , then i think you know what to do.... maybe you just need somekind of an encouragement or blessings to go ahead and do what yor heart desires.
For me, this world is full of hypocrasy (did i spell that right?) and shame inflicted to people even if they are just being ';people';.... we teach our children to be honest but forget to be honest to ourselves first. We tell them not to hurt anyone but we inflict hurt to ourselves or allow it. We don't seem to love or respect ourselves enough... we always try to be selfless but in doing so we end up taking ourselves for granted... so how could we be of good service to the ones we love or others if we don't take good care of ourselves first?
All those guys are after one thing. They could not [possibvly have goos intent moving in like this.
Take some time and deal with the divorce. Date again when it is final.
It will not be easy but you really need to establish an individual personality that does nort include a man first before you can make any choices regarding another one.
If you want to go out and unwind go! Just keep it on the down low until divorce is final. Go out when he has the kids. Since he was a jerk treat yourself to a nice man and have some fun! Look, nothing wrong with having guy friends who take you out for some fun!! Right! Plus you have 3 kids you need a break and some time for just you! Bubble baths don't always work sometimes you need spoiled by a good man!!
While you are seperated you are STILL married. Going to dinner or just general dating won't hurt but I advise no relationships because of the fact that you ARE still married. Stay away from forming a relationship unti AFTER your decree of divorce.
start dating as soon as possible!
No. Separated isn't divorced, so dating would still be adultery.Is it ok for separated couples to date other people?
Not a good idea to date while u are separated...he ll use it against u in court to ask for custody etc....wait until the divorce is FINAL.....be patient....
There's more to this story than you are revealing obviously. If you want to move on file for divorce asap.
There are several questions in my mind here. You didn't specify if youre in the process of getting a divorce... (but I'm guessing you are since you mentioned a judge)anyway, are you in California?... where there's a no fault law.... do you worry about your religion? Is it against your religion?
I really think youre old enough to figure this question out. You see, if you yourself mentioned that you think it's time to move on , then i think you know what to do.... maybe you just need somekind of an encouragement or blessings to go ahead and do what yor heart desires.
For me, this world is full of hypocrasy (did i spell that right?) and shame inflicted to people even if they are just being ';people';.... we teach our children to be honest but forget to be honest to ourselves first. We tell them not to hurt anyone but we inflict hurt to ourselves or allow it. We don't seem to love or respect ourselves enough... we always try to be selfless but in doing so we end up taking ourselves for granted... so how could we be of good service to the ones we love or others if we don't take good care of ourselves first?
All those guys are after one thing. They could not [possibvly have goos intent moving in like this.
Take some time and deal with the divorce. Date again when it is final.
It will not be easy but you really need to establish an individual personality that does nort include a man first before you can make any choices regarding another one.
If you want to go out and unwind go! Just keep it on the down low until divorce is final. Go out when he has the kids. Since he was a jerk treat yourself to a nice man and have some fun! Look, nothing wrong with having guy friends who take you out for some fun!! Right! Plus you have 3 kids you need a break and some time for just you! Bubble baths don't always work sometimes you need spoiled by a good man!!
While you are seperated you are STILL married. Going to dinner or just general dating won't hurt but I advise no relationships because of the fact that you ARE still married. Stay away from forming a relationship unti AFTER your decree of divorce.
start dating as soon as possible!
Do gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
Or do they kiss and cuddle the same?Do gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
there is no difference between gay people and straight couples we are the same as everyone elseDo gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
All i can go off of is personal experience- when i was pretending to be straight (every year until i hit 18), i REFUSED to cuddle and lay up under my boyfriends unless i had a damn good reason. I just didnt want to. It irritated me when they wanted to hold me and caress me. I was just like...ummmm...no. BUT when i became true to myself and came out as a lesbian, my girlfriend and i cant atay away from eachother. And its not all sex driven. Its INTIMACY. We dont have to do anything sexual. I just love for her to hold me, and kiss me, and snuggle with me ALL the time. I get withdrawals when she isnt around. So for me, yea. There's a BIG difference.
I've never seen a gay couple engaged in behavior like that in public except for on TV
I try for as often as possible with my teddy bear
Uhhh the same. I don't see why sexual orientation would make a difference.
Well, depends on the couple. I know straight couples who cuddle all of the time and anywhere. And I know straight couples who it is like pulling teeth to get them to hold hands even. Same goes for gay couples. It is what you are into, not what your sexual orientation is.
hmm...kind of a wierd question....why would they do things
any differently?
yes they do. studies have proven that gay relationships tend to be 25% more successful than straight relationships
doesn't that make you want to raise your child gay?
I don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with how much a couple will kiss or cuddle? I think we do as much as any straight couple. but, everyone is different. some couples (gay or straight) aren't that affectionate at all.
more or less, couples are couples!
You look. I don't wanna get eye warts.
there is no difference between gay people and straight couples we are the same as everyone elseDo gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
All i can go off of is personal experience- when i was pretending to be straight (every year until i hit 18), i REFUSED to cuddle and lay up under my boyfriends unless i had a damn good reason. I just didnt want to. It irritated me when they wanted to hold me and caress me. I was just like...ummmm...no. BUT when i became true to myself and came out as a lesbian, my girlfriend and i cant atay away from eachother. And its not all sex driven. Its INTIMACY. We dont have to do anything sexual. I just love for her to hold me, and kiss me, and snuggle with me ALL the time. I get withdrawals when she isnt around. So for me, yea. There's a BIG difference.
I've never seen a gay couple engaged in behavior like that in public except for on TV
I try for as often as possible with my teddy bear
Uhhh the same. I don't see why sexual orientation would make a difference.
Well, depends on the couple. I know straight couples who cuddle all of the time and anywhere. And I know straight couples who it is like pulling teeth to get them to hold hands even. Same goes for gay couples. It is what you are into, not what your sexual orientation is.
hmm...kind of a wierd question....why would they do things
any differently?
yes they do. studies have proven that gay relationships tend to be 25% more successful than straight relationships
doesn't that make you want to raise your child gay?
I don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with how much a couple will kiss or cuddle? I think we do as much as any straight couple. but, everyone is different. some couples (gay or straight) aren't that affectionate at all.
more or less, couples are couples!
You look. I don't wanna get eye warts.
Do guys have a perfect couples list?
do they make list of there perfect couples and of there friends?Do guys have a perfect couples list?
im a girl and ive never even heard of that.
it sounds pretty corny though.Do guys have a perfect couples list?
Not straight guys.
hell no i didnt know anyone didconsumables
im a girl and ive never even heard of that.
it sounds pretty corny though.Do guys have a perfect couples list?
Not straight guys.
hell no i didnt know anyone did
10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
nothing innapropriate..thanks10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Glow stick Costumes - new this year and very unique.10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Juno and Bleeker (http://clarkebruce.files.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>
Harley Quinn and the Joker (http://www.hyperborea.org/journal/images鈥?/a>
Peanut Butter and Jelly
A Nut and a Bolt (http://www.buycostumes.com/Nut-Bolt-Coup鈥?/a>
A key and lock?
Black and White?
I'm really reaching here, haha.
the mom and dad from the adams family pebbles and bambam from the Flintstones a dog and a bone
beauty and the beast
minni and mickey mouse
be Mccain anddd Palinnnn haa.
white rice andd soyyy sauceee.orr
ketchupp andd mustarddd.
dorthyy andd tinmannn orr
the olsen twinss orr
plugg and outtlett.
The smurfs
Glow stick Costumes - new this year and very unique.10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Juno and Bleeker (http://clarkebruce.files.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>
Harley Quinn and the Joker (http://www.hyperborea.org/journal/images鈥?/a>
Peanut Butter and Jelly
A Nut and a Bolt (http://www.buycostumes.com/Nut-Bolt-Coup鈥?/a>
A key and lock?
Black and White?
I'm really reaching here, haha.
the mom and dad from the adams family pebbles and bambam from the Flintstones a dog and a bone
beauty and the beast
minni and mickey mouse
be Mccain anddd Palinnnn haa.
white rice andd soyyy sauceee.orr
ketchupp andd mustarddd.
dorthyy andd tinmannn orr
the olsen twinss orr
plugg and outtlett.
The smurfs
Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
I had a cousin who was married and wanted a baby so bad, they tried everything for years even that stuff that puts you at risk for mutiple births but nothing, then later they were divorced and she got pregnant by her new boyfriend right away. Same with me, I got pregnant when i was 19 after 2 months of sex, now that I am married and want a family- nothing for over 2 years.. what's the deal with that? Actually he wants a family more than me but I do want to give him a family of about 2 or three kids. I heard taking prenatal pills might help but I don't believe it, is it trueIs it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Maybe the guy has low sperm count. Thats why she couldn't get pregnant by him.Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Sometimes prenatal vitamins can help as they put the nutrients in you body that it needs to get pregnant, but I've heard of that happening alot with people, maybe it's just that some people aren't meant to have children together...
It can happen. It's recently been found that some women may actually be 'allergic' to their partner's sperm, so their body attacks it before they reach the egg. But there's many possible reasons for infertility, so it's not always possible to know for sure what's going on.
As for the prenatals, they don't contain hormones so they won't help get you pregnant, but they *are* important to take *before* pregnacy so that you have a store of folic acid in your system. Folic acid helps prevent certain birth defects, but it's only effective very early in pregnancy. Also, the extra nutrients from the prenatals can help ensure that you're healthy, so it never hurts to try them.
When we were going through infertility testing I was checked to see if I was ';allergic'; to my husband's sperm. I wasn't thank god. It is true though.
Yeah my fiance was with his ex for 10 years got with me and a couple months later BAM I'm pregnant so there could have been something wrong with her but me I'm probably just as fertile as my mom =/ (she gets pregnant easily)
Some couples are like that Lover+Lover=Neg , -New Guy+Girl= Pos. A friend of mines been with her boyfriend for like ever, she took it upon herself to go mesh around with someone and BAMMMM she pregnant. It's really crazy sometime. I do believe some people are just not compatible for pregnancy. Jokes. Maybe the sperm wants a new body to rest in. I'm going to reseacrh more on that.
Maybe the guy has low sperm count. Thats why she couldn't get pregnant by him.Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Sometimes prenatal vitamins can help as they put the nutrients in you body that it needs to get pregnant, but I've heard of that happening alot with people, maybe it's just that some people aren't meant to have children together...
It can happen. It's recently been found that some women may actually be 'allergic' to their partner's sperm, so their body attacks it before they reach the egg. But there's many possible reasons for infertility, so it's not always possible to know for sure what's going on.
As for the prenatals, they don't contain hormones so they won't help get you pregnant, but they *are* important to take *before* pregnacy so that you have a store of folic acid in your system. Folic acid helps prevent certain birth defects, but it's only effective very early in pregnancy. Also, the extra nutrients from the prenatals can help ensure that you're healthy, so it never hurts to try them.
When we were going through infertility testing I was checked to see if I was ';allergic'; to my husband's sperm. I wasn't thank god. It is true though.
Yeah my fiance was with his ex for 10 years got with me and a couple months later BAM I'm pregnant so there could have been something wrong with her but me I'm probably just as fertile as my mom =/ (she gets pregnant easily)
Some couples are like that Lover+Lover=Neg , -New Guy+Girl= Pos. A friend of mines been with her boyfriend for like ever, she took it upon herself to go mesh around with someone and BAMMMM she pregnant. It's really crazy sometime. I do believe some people are just not compatible for pregnancy. Jokes. Maybe the sperm wants a new body to rest in. I'm going to reseacrh more on that.
Do gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
Or do they kiss and cuddle the same?Do gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
there is no difference between gay people and straight couples we are the same as everyone elseDo gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
All i can go off of is personal experience- when i was pretending to be straight (every year until i hit 18), i REFUSED to cuddle and lay up under my boyfriends unless i had a damn good reason. I just didnt want to. It irritated me when they wanted to hold me and caress me. I was just like...ummmm...no. BUT when i became true to myself and came out as a lesbian, my girlfriend and i cant atay away from eachother. And its not all sex driven. Its INTIMACY. We dont have to do anything sexual. I just love for her to hold me, and kiss me, and snuggle with me ALL the time. I get withdrawals when she isnt around. So for me, yea. There's a BIG difference.
I've never seen a gay couple engaged in behavior like that in public except for on TV
I try for as often as possible with my teddy bear
Uhhh the same. I don't see why sexual orientation would make a difference.
Well, depends on the couple. I know straight couples who cuddle all of the time and anywhere. And I know straight couples who it is like pulling teeth to get them to hold hands even. Same goes for gay couples. It is what you are into, not what your sexual orientation is.
hmm...kind of a wierd question....why would they do things
any differently?
yes they do. studies have proven that gay relationships tend to be 25% more successful than straight relationships
doesn't that make you want to raise your child gay?
I don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with how much a couple will kiss or cuddle? I think we do as much as any straight couple. but, everyone is different. some couples (gay or straight) aren't that affectionate at all.
more or less, couples are couples!
You look. I don't wanna get eye warts.
there is no difference between gay people and straight couples we are the same as everyone elseDo gay couples kiss and cuddle more than straight couples?
All i can go off of is personal experience- when i was pretending to be straight (every year until i hit 18), i REFUSED to cuddle and lay up under my boyfriends unless i had a damn good reason. I just didnt want to. It irritated me when they wanted to hold me and caress me. I was just like...ummmm...no. BUT when i became true to myself and came out as a lesbian, my girlfriend and i cant atay away from eachother. And its not all sex driven. Its INTIMACY. We dont have to do anything sexual. I just love for her to hold me, and kiss me, and snuggle with me ALL the time. I get withdrawals when she isnt around. So for me, yea. There's a BIG difference.
I've never seen a gay couple engaged in behavior like that in public except for on TV
I try for as often as possible with my teddy bear
Uhhh the same. I don't see why sexual orientation would make a difference.
Well, depends on the couple. I know straight couples who cuddle all of the time and anywhere. And I know straight couples who it is like pulling teeth to get them to hold hands even. Same goes for gay couples. It is what you are into, not what your sexual orientation is.
hmm...kind of a wierd question....why would they do things
any differently?
yes they do. studies have proven that gay relationships tend to be 25% more successful than straight relationships
doesn't that make you want to raise your child gay?
I don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with how much a couple will kiss or cuddle? I think we do as much as any straight couple. but, everyone is different. some couples (gay or straight) aren't that affectionate at all.
more or less, couples are couples!
You look. I don't wanna get eye warts.
10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
nothing innapropriate..thanks10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Glow stick Costumes - new this year and very unique.10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Juno and Bleeker (http://clarkebruce.files.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>
Harley Quinn and the Joker (http://www.hyperborea.org/journal/images鈥?/a>
Peanut Butter and Jelly
A Nut and a Bolt (http://www.buycostumes.com/Nut-Bolt-Coup鈥?/a>
A key and lock?
Black and White?
I'm really reaching here, haha.
the mom and dad from the adams family pebbles and bambam from the Flintstones a dog and a bone
beauty and the beast
minni and mickey mouse
be Mccain anddd Palinnnn haa.
white rice andd soyyy sauceee.orr
ketchupp andd mustarddd.
dorthyy andd tinmannn orr
the olsen twinss orr
plugg and outtlett.
The smurfs
Glow stick Costumes - new this year and very unique.10 pts best answer!!!!! Halloween costume ideas that are funny and original for couples?
Juno and Bleeker (http://clarkebruce.files.wordpress.com/2鈥?/a>
Harley Quinn and the Joker (http://www.hyperborea.org/journal/images鈥?/a>
Peanut Butter and Jelly
A Nut and a Bolt (http://www.buycostumes.com/Nut-Bolt-Coup鈥?/a>
A key and lock?
Black and White?
I'm really reaching here, haha.
the mom and dad from the adams family pebbles and bambam from the Flintstones a dog and a bone
beauty and the beast
minni and mickey mouse
be Mccain anddd Palinnnn haa.
white rice andd soyyy sauceee.orr
ketchupp andd mustarddd.
dorthyy andd tinmannn orr
the olsen twinss orr
plugg and outtlett.
The smurfs
Do guys have a perfect couples list?
do they make list of there perfect couples and of there friends?Do guys have a perfect couples list?
im a girl and ive never even heard of that.
it sounds pretty corny though.Do guys have a perfect couples list?
hell no i didnt know anyone did
Not straight guys.consumables
im a girl and ive never even heard of that.
it sounds pretty corny though.Do guys have a perfect couples list?
hell no i didnt know anyone did
Not straight guys.
Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
I had a cousin who was married and wanted a baby so bad, they tried everything for years even that stuff that puts you at risk for mutiple births but nothing, then later they were divorced and she got pregnant by her new boyfriend right away. Same with me, I got pregnant when i was 19 after 2 months of sex, now that I am married and want a family- nothing for over 2 years.. what's the deal with that? Actually he wants a family more than me but I do want to give him a family of about 2 or three kids. I heard taking prenatal pills might help but I don't believe it, is it trueIs it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Maybe the guy has low sperm count. Thats why she couldn't get pregnant by him.Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Sometimes prenatal vitamins can help as they put the nutrients in you body that it needs to get pregnant, but I've heard of that happening alot with people, maybe it's just that some people aren't meant to have children together...
It can happen. It's recently been found that some women may actually be 'allergic' to their partner's sperm, so their body attacks it before they reach the egg. But there's many possible reasons for infertility, so it's not always possible to know for sure what's going on.
As for the prenatals, they don't contain hormones so they won't help get you pregnant, but they *are* important to take *before* pregnacy so that you have a store of folic acid in your system. Folic acid helps prevent certain birth defects, but it's only effective very early in pregnancy. Also, the extra nutrients from the prenatals can help ensure that you're healthy, so it never hurts to try them.
When we were going through infertility testing I was checked to see if I was ';allergic'; to my husband's sperm. I wasn't thank god. It is true though.
Yeah my fiance was with his ex for 10 years got with me and a couple months later BAM I'm pregnant so there could have been something wrong with her but me I'm probably just as fertile as my mom =/ (she gets pregnant easily)
Some couples are like that Lover+Lover=Neg , -New Guy+Girl= Pos. A friend of mines been with her boyfriend for like ever, she took it upon herself to go mesh around with someone and BAMMMM she pregnant. It's really crazy sometime. I do believe some people are just not compatible for pregnancy. Jokes. Maybe the sperm wants a new body to rest in. I'm going to reseacrh more on that.
Maybe the guy has low sperm count. Thats why she couldn't get pregnant by him.Is it true that some couples aren't compatible for pregnancy?
Sometimes prenatal vitamins can help as they put the nutrients in you body that it needs to get pregnant, but I've heard of that happening alot with people, maybe it's just that some people aren't meant to have children together...
It can happen. It's recently been found that some women may actually be 'allergic' to their partner's sperm, so their body attacks it before they reach the egg. But there's many possible reasons for infertility, so it's not always possible to know for sure what's going on.
As for the prenatals, they don't contain hormones so they won't help get you pregnant, but they *are* important to take *before* pregnacy so that you have a store of folic acid in your system. Folic acid helps prevent certain birth defects, but it's only effective very early in pregnancy. Also, the extra nutrients from the prenatals can help ensure that you're healthy, so it never hurts to try them.
When we were going through infertility testing I was checked to see if I was ';allergic'; to my husband's sperm. I wasn't thank god. It is true though.
Yeah my fiance was with his ex for 10 years got with me and a couple months later BAM I'm pregnant so there could have been something wrong with her but me I'm probably just as fertile as my mom =/ (she gets pregnant easily)
Some couples are like that Lover+Lover=Neg , -New Guy+Girl= Pos. A friend of mines been with her boyfriend for like ever, she took it upon herself to go mesh around with someone and BAMMMM she pregnant. It's really crazy sometime. I do believe some people are just not compatible for pregnancy. Jokes. Maybe the sperm wants a new body to rest in. I'm going to reseacrh more on that.
Does premartial sex apply to couples even while they are engaged and about to become married?
Your opinion is greatly appreciated :)Does premartial sex apply to couples even while they are engaged and about to become married?
Yeah it does. Here's the deal if you've been having premarital sex and you are worried about the morals involved, just ask for forgiveness. You have a forgiving God so pray on it. No one is perfect and everyone who answer your question probably had premarital sex. So ask for forgiveness and see the remainder for marriage/honeymoon. If the soon to be hubby don't understand then maybe it's a sign....LOL. NO ONES PERFECT, get married and be true to one another.
Good LuckDoes premartial sex apply to couples even while they are engaged and about to become married?
I don't think so, but I have a very open-minded view of the Bible and my spirituality. God wants us to be happy. I do not believe in a punishing God. He wants us to follow our hearts. Just make sure your comittment is strong and that you save something special for the wedding night!
that's technically Pre-Marital (marital meaning married) but if that guy turns out to be the only guy you ever have sex with, the the spirit of the law is followed, if not the letter.
besides, what about heavy petting and oral and stuff? it's another gray area.
Yes. Jeeze, pre- meaning before, and marital, as in marriage!!!! Yes, it is before marriage!!!! If you're confused about a word, learn your latin and greek roots. But personally, I don't belive sex is ever wrong unless it is not in a committed relationship of some kind. (Not that you need my approval.)
The term ';premaritial'; refers to before marriage, so yes, it applies.
Whether it's right or wrong is all up to the couple involved.
Yes. premarital=prior to marriage.
yes, hence the word PREmarital...
haha...pre- means before, so pre-marital would be BEFORE marriage. If it means something to you to not have premarital sex....better rush the ceremony.
The word ';premarital'; means ';before marriage';
Even if you are engaged, you are not married, therefore it means youare having premarital sex.
That's like asking if it is bad to steal if you don't get caught. Pre-marital is before marriage. The way I see it one sin is as bad as another, Me and my man have pre- marital sex. I would hate to be stuck with a husband who was bad in bed.
Yes it applies, if you are going to get married is a good thing to know one to each other better and find out what you like or not, and is a good thing to talk frankly about that, it will be a good thing to get strong the relationship
Yes i think it does until the marriage is finalized.
Even if you are engaged, you are not married.
Taking vows in front of friends, family, the government and (if so inclined) the church makes you married.
An engagement is a promise to get married.
Being engaged is NOTHING like being legally married ... big difference ... if you're saving yourself for marriage %26amp; you sleep with your fiance before the wedding ... that is considered pre-marital sex ... what happens if you end up not getting married - you never know what the next day is going to bring ... I was happy with my boyfriend one minute - and the next morning I woke up to a phone call of him dying in a car accident ... so yeah ... you can bend the truth if you want .. but deep down you know what the answer is already ... !
Yes. Pre means before. Being engaged is still before u r married.
no
sex before marriage is sex before marriage no matter how you put it or who you are! not that its a bad thing!!
yes that is what premarital means
It's right there in the word ';premarital';. If you've waited long enough to get engaged, then I think you can wait until you're married.
P.S. good job on waiting it out. Premarital sex clutters your judgment and makes it harder to make an ';educated'; decision. It's not impossible to make a good choice, just harder.
Pre-marital= before marriage. Engaged doesnt give you a by! Nice try tho!
yea it is pre-marital which mean before you are actually married, sorry but yes it does apply!
Uh, yes.
Yeah it does. Here's the deal if you've been having premarital sex and you are worried about the morals involved, just ask for forgiveness. You have a forgiving God so pray on it. No one is perfect and everyone who answer your question probably had premarital sex. So ask for forgiveness and see the remainder for marriage/honeymoon. If the soon to be hubby don't understand then maybe it's a sign....LOL. NO ONES PERFECT, get married and be true to one another.
Good LuckDoes premartial sex apply to couples even while they are engaged and about to become married?
I don't think so, but I have a very open-minded view of the Bible and my spirituality. God wants us to be happy. I do not believe in a punishing God. He wants us to follow our hearts. Just make sure your comittment is strong and that you save something special for the wedding night!
that's technically Pre-Marital (marital meaning married) but if that guy turns out to be the only guy you ever have sex with, the the spirit of the law is followed, if not the letter.
besides, what about heavy petting and oral and stuff? it's another gray area.
Yes. Jeeze, pre- meaning before, and marital, as in marriage!!!! Yes, it is before marriage!!!! If you're confused about a word, learn your latin and greek roots. But personally, I don't belive sex is ever wrong unless it is not in a committed relationship of some kind. (Not that you need my approval.)
The term ';premaritial'; refers to before marriage, so yes, it applies.
Whether it's right or wrong is all up to the couple involved.
Yes. premarital=prior to marriage.
yes, hence the word PREmarital...
haha...pre- means before, so pre-marital would be BEFORE marriage. If it means something to you to not have premarital sex....better rush the ceremony.
The word ';premarital'; means ';before marriage';
Even if you are engaged, you are not married, therefore it means youare having premarital sex.
That's like asking if it is bad to steal if you don't get caught. Pre-marital is before marriage. The way I see it one sin is as bad as another, Me and my man have pre- marital sex. I would hate to be stuck with a husband who was bad in bed.
Yes it applies, if you are going to get married is a good thing to know one to each other better and find out what you like or not, and is a good thing to talk frankly about that, it will be a good thing to get strong the relationship
Yes i think it does until the marriage is finalized.
Even if you are engaged, you are not married.
Taking vows in front of friends, family, the government and (if so inclined) the church makes you married.
An engagement is a promise to get married.
Being engaged is NOTHING like being legally married ... big difference ... if you're saving yourself for marriage %26amp; you sleep with your fiance before the wedding ... that is considered pre-marital sex ... what happens if you end up not getting married - you never know what the next day is going to bring ... I was happy with my boyfriend one minute - and the next morning I woke up to a phone call of him dying in a car accident ... so yeah ... you can bend the truth if you want .. but deep down you know what the answer is already ... !
Yes. Pre means before. Being engaged is still before u r married.
no
sex before marriage is sex before marriage no matter how you put it or who you are! not that its a bad thing!!
yes that is what premarital means
It's right there in the word ';premarital';. If you've waited long enough to get engaged, then I think you can wait until you're married.
P.S. good job on waiting it out. Premarital sex clutters your judgment and makes it harder to make an ';educated'; decision. It's not impossible to make a good choice, just harder.
Pre-marital= before marriage. Engaged doesnt give you a by! Nice try tho!
yea it is pre-marital which mean before you are actually married, sorry but yes it does apply!
Uh, yes.
Is it normal for married couples without kids to have sex once or twice a week?
Before our 2year old, It happened everyday, up to 3 times, however that stopped when the baby came. It depends on how much both of you want it. When it becomes routine is when it is not fun anymore.Is it normal for married couples without kids to have sex once or twice a week?
i think it should be everyday!
every freaking day!
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhIs it normal for married couples without kids to have sex once or twice a week?
My wife and I dont have kids and we do it 2 or 3 times a day. Might as well cause when we do have kids we wont have as much alone time.
Could be.
Some are more. Some are less. Some have times when it is more often and the same couples have other spans of time that it is less often. Depends alot on what all is going on at the time. Is one of them especially tired that week? Sick? Stressed? Depressed? Sad? Angry? Happy? Celebrating something? etc. etc. etc. There are all sorts of factors that play into what's ';normal'; for a couple.
And what's ';normal'; frequency for one couple may be different that what's ';normal'; for another couple.
Also, what's ';normal'; for a couple may change through the years as their relationship mellows and becomes more secure, whether or not there are children present.
Before we had kids we had sex once or twice a day. But if neither of you has a problem with it then there's no problem. Maybe you should spice things up, try some games or read some erotica, etc.
Please re frame your question with the details. Like mention the age of the couple and how long they are married?
Once or twice a week! I'd love to have sex with my wife once or twice a week. (no kids). Try once or twice a year and see how you like it.
just depends on the couple but that's not the usual 4 to 5 is more inline for a heathy relationship
I think so. Among other factors, it depends on your age too. I'm 42 now and don't think about sex as much anymore. And frankly, it's liberating.
NO, sounds like someone is being short changed.
It depends on the couple's attitude and interest on sex. We cannot generalize in these aspects.
What is normal? If you want it more, tell you spouse.
It is perfectly normal. It is also perfectly normal for them to have sex once or twice a month, or once or twice a day. Everyone is different, so as long as it's what they want, then it's normal.
Usually at least that often...
Not really. Generally 3 or 4 times a week would be average. It's a problem if one of you wants it more and the other person less. You need to find middle ground on this one
i think it should be everyday!
every freaking day!
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhIs it normal for married couples without kids to have sex once or twice a week?
My wife and I dont have kids and we do it 2 or 3 times a day. Might as well cause when we do have kids we wont have as much alone time.
Could be.
Some are more. Some are less. Some have times when it is more often and the same couples have other spans of time that it is less often. Depends alot on what all is going on at the time. Is one of them especially tired that week? Sick? Stressed? Depressed? Sad? Angry? Happy? Celebrating something? etc. etc. etc. There are all sorts of factors that play into what's ';normal'; for a couple.
And what's ';normal'; frequency for one couple may be different that what's ';normal'; for another couple.
Also, what's ';normal'; for a couple may change through the years as their relationship mellows and becomes more secure, whether or not there are children present.
Before we had kids we had sex once or twice a day. But if neither of you has a problem with it then there's no problem. Maybe you should spice things up, try some games or read some erotica, etc.
Please re frame your question with the details. Like mention the age of the couple and how long they are married?
Once or twice a week! I'd love to have sex with my wife once or twice a week. (no kids). Try once or twice a year and see how you like it.
just depends on the couple but that's not the usual 4 to 5 is more inline for a heathy relationship
I think so. Among other factors, it depends on your age too. I'm 42 now and don't think about sex as much anymore. And frankly, it's liberating.
NO, sounds like someone is being short changed.
It depends on the couple's attitude and interest on sex. We cannot generalize in these aspects.
What is normal? If you want it more, tell you spouse.
It is perfectly normal. It is also perfectly normal for them to have sex once or twice a month, or once or twice a day. Everyone is different, so as long as it's what they want, then it's normal.
Usually at least that often...
Not really. Generally 3 or 4 times a week would be average. It's a problem if one of you wants it more and the other person less. You need to find middle ground on this one
Why is it so important for a guy to take you to another couples house and everyone have sex?
It's not!
And please dont ever let ANYONE talk you into doing something you don't want to do!Why is it so important for a guy to take you to another couples house and everyone have sex?
WTF???Why is it so important for a guy to take you to another couples house and everyone have sex?
sounds fishy
It's not important. It's trashy! Also, it's dangerous!
IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. WHAT THE F*CK IS THAT ALL ABOUT?
because he want to have companyto have sex
And please dont ever let ANYONE talk you into doing something you don't want to do!Why is it so important for a guy to take you to another couples house and everyone have sex?
WTF???Why is it so important for a guy to take you to another couples house and everyone have sex?
sounds fishy
It's not important. It's trashy! Also, it's dangerous!
IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. WHAT THE F*CK IS THAT ALL ABOUT?
because he want to have companyto have sex
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I am looking for an audio podcast maybe done by a man and a woman or a host and a professional that cover subjects relating to relationships and marriage.
One that comes from a self help, life coach kind of perspective. Its OK if is is a simple non professional discussion format.Its also OK if it is similar to average intelligent couples dinner conversation.
Please nothing that is bible or faith based.Looking for a relationship marriage couples podcast?
Here is one that might be helpful and I believe is non-religion based...
http://www.relationshiptalkpodcast.com/consumables
One that comes from a self help, life coach kind of perspective. Its OK if is is a simple non professional discussion format.Its also OK if it is similar to average intelligent couples dinner conversation.
Please nothing that is bible or faith based.Looking for a relationship marriage couples podcast?
Here is one that might be helpful and I believe is non-religion based...
http://www.relationshiptalkpodcast.com/
Has anyone else noticed the increasing number of black woman, white man marriages/couples?
I'm a white man married to a black woman with 3 girls and I've noticed that there's been more of these beautiful couples around every dayHas anyone else noticed the increasing number of black woman, white man marriages/couples?
yea i've noticed, and its the best thing that could ever happen because i think this will help stop racism and im glad more and more people are forgetting about it cause it's the most ridiculous thing everHas anyone else noticed the increasing number of black woman, white man marriages/couples?
Bravo..........love has no color. I married a lovely white lady back in 1978. Yes we caught some flak but our love endured.
Thank you, sincerely, for all of the thumbs down. Such merely proves my point of an intentionally altered society minded at some Afericanization of previous America.
hell yeah
i see it all the time where i live. im a victim of interracial love : ) yay me?
coooool
Nope not here in Europe. In fact I don't see interracial couples here that much. But I have noticed that is increasing tremendously in America.
I'm a black women and I absolutely love white men. I really hope that interracial couples will increase here in Europe too.
Because it's just wonderful to see two races actually get along.
Lol what is it with Italian dudes and black women? I'm Italian myself and have a son with one.
Of course, yay!!! I see them everyday here in my area. I have three black girlfriends who are also with white men (one is married to an Italian ;-P).
I also date white men and my current boyfriend is white. The numbers are increasing because a lot of black American women are now becoming open to the idea of interracial dating (mostly with white men, because they are the majority).
Lol.. Yes I have noticed a significant increase in the number of white guys with black ladies, and I think it is great. I was married to a black man and it was pretty common to see a black man date a female outside of his race, but it was pretty rare to see it the other way around. But even down here in Southeast Alabama, things are starting to change for the better.
Thats cool, maybe you saw me and my White bf *wink* lol
I hope so. I'm Italian and the mother of my daughters is a black woman. I have only dated like 3 white women in my life. I'm just more attracted to black and latina women.
I have too! I'm a black woman, engaged to be married to a white man. I love him for who he is and dont give a shi* who doesnt like it. sucks to be you if ya dont, but it wont effect me!!!
I too think its beautiful. Congrats to you, and your wife/3 babies. :)
sir things change
for a long time black women were not comfortable or given encouragement for dating outside their race
also, many white men did not see any beauty amongst black women
but integration has made some of these issues null and so these things happen
uhhhm..yeah, i guess i noticed.
Unfortunately I have. It's a crying shame.
Mere attempt to confound black males, ult. inhibit their aspiration into aryan bloodlines whereof they are not entitled, through miscegenation and like interracialism. %26lt; white thought.
Purpose? Do you believe that behind your back she loves you or cares about you?
My suggestion, go out into the real world and observe the conduct of most black women, esp. any presumably attractive black women (they are mere drones, used as pseudo-robots more or less by their race in an attempt to eradicate racial barriers, specif. that more black males might achieve preservation of some imagined lineage: imagined due ostracization from their own native land years past). %26lt; likely black proposition, agenda.
yea i've noticed, and its the best thing that could ever happen because i think this will help stop racism and im glad more and more people are forgetting about it cause it's the most ridiculous thing everHas anyone else noticed the increasing number of black woman, white man marriages/couples?
Bravo..........love has no color. I married a lovely white lady back in 1978. Yes we caught some flak but our love endured.
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hell yeah
i see it all the time where i live. im a victim of interracial love : ) yay me?
coooool
Nope not here in Europe. In fact I don't see interracial couples here that much. But I have noticed that is increasing tremendously in America.
I'm a black women and I absolutely love white men. I really hope that interracial couples will increase here in Europe too.
Because it's just wonderful to see two races actually get along.
Lol what is it with Italian dudes and black women? I'm Italian myself and have a son with one.
Of course, yay!!! I see them everyday here in my area. I have three black girlfriends who are also with white men (one is married to an Italian ;-P).
I also date white men and my current boyfriend is white. The numbers are increasing because a lot of black American women are now becoming open to the idea of interracial dating (mostly with white men, because they are the majority).
Lol.. Yes I have noticed a significant increase in the number of white guys with black ladies, and I think it is great. I was married to a black man and it was pretty common to see a black man date a female outside of his race, but it was pretty rare to see it the other way around. But even down here in Southeast Alabama, things are starting to change for the better.
Thats cool, maybe you saw me and my White bf *wink* lol
I hope so. I'm Italian and the mother of my daughters is a black woman. I have only dated like 3 white women in my life. I'm just more attracted to black and latina women.
I have too! I'm a black woman, engaged to be married to a white man. I love him for who he is and dont give a shi* who doesnt like it. sucks to be you if ya dont, but it wont effect me!!!
I too think its beautiful. Congrats to you, and your wife/3 babies. :)
sir things change
for a long time black women were not comfortable or given encouragement for dating outside their race
also, many white men did not see any beauty amongst black women
but integration has made some of these issues null and so these things happen
uhhhm..yeah, i guess i noticed.
Unfortunately I have. It's a crying shame.
Mere attempt to confound black males, ult. inhibit their aspiration into aryan bloodlines whereof they are not entitled, through miscegenation and like interracialism. %26lt; white thought.
Purpose? Do you believe that behind your back she loves you or cares about you?
My suggestion, go out into the real world and observe the conduct of most black women, esp. any presumably attractive black women (they are mere drones, used as pseudo-robots more or less by their race in an attempt to eradicate racial barriers, specif. that more black males might achieve preservation of some imagined lineage: imagined due ostracization from their own native land years past). %26lt; likely black proposition, agenda.
Is there any problem if couples contain the same blood group?
that is actually a very good thingIs there any problem if couples contain the same blood group?
No... there's nothing wrong with itIs there any problem if couples contain the same blood group?
the only concern with blood types is the rh factor regarding the mother and the baby. If the mother is negative and the baby is positive the mother's body can reject the baby as a foreign body because it contains a protein the mother's body doesn't. My sister-in-law had this problem, they have a needle that fixes that. I am not sure what exactly it does, but I have a feeling that my sister is going to have the same problem if she gets pregnant.
As long as they are not related-what is a concern is not the blood group- but the Rh factor which is - or + If the woman is Rh negative she may need RhoGam during and after pregnancy-D
No... there's nothing wrong with itIs there any problem if couples contain the same blood group?
the only concern with blood types is the rh factor regarding the mother and the baby. If the mother is negative and the baby is positive the mother's body can reject the baby as a foreign body because it contains a protein the mother's body doesn't. My sister-in-law had this problem, they have a needle that fixes that. I am not sure what exactly it does, but I have a feeling that my sister is going to have the same problem if she gets pregnant.
As long as they are not related-what is a concern is not the blood group- but the Rh factor which is - or + If the woman is Rh negative she may need RhoGam during and after pregnancy-D
To all the married couples or engaged, or about to be engaged...?
how do you know the person you are with...is the ONE?To all the married couples or engaged, or about to be engaged...?
Hard to explain, but simply - you just know.To all the married couples or engaged, or about to be engaged...?
When you're first falling in love with each other, there's this sense that they're perfect for you and complete you. You're excited to be with them and then depressed to be away from them.
I think the real test of a relationship comes after that point though. The people I've known who got divorced went through that stuff at the beginning of the relationship, but then after a year or two of being together they were no longer really happy with being in the relationship.
When it's the one, you just have this strong friendship that remains between you even after you've been together a while. It's just your best friend, the person you're closest to who you can be yourself around. You know you can count on them to always be there and take care of you, and you want to be there to take care of them.
Love is a choice. There is no such thing as the ';one';. You click with some people, and are willing to make a life time devotion to others. If you are lucky enough to find someone you love, and get along with well enough, and both chose to make it work, then you are set. I have been with a wonderful man since I was 14, and we are getting married in a year from now. We compromise, have great communication, and have such deep desires for one another, we will last until we die. If you chose to love someone, and make an everlasting commitment, then it will last.
This is how you know..
*Your fiance(e) is your best friend
*You can be yourself around him/her (naked, without make-up, smelly, ugly, etc.)
*They have been there for you no matter what
*When there is a problem they are willing to help you and work WITH YOU
*He/she always has you in their heart (calls you, texts, emails)
*he/she is the first person you think about when you wake up
*you wanna spend EVERY SECOND together
*If you were to lose your job he/she would be suppportive and understanding
*you never disrespect each other (physically, emotionally, cheating, EVER)
*When you think of your future, you only see your self with that person
*thinking about your love makes you cry
*you would give anything to be with him/her
I can seriously go on forever!!!!
do they respect you? are they your BEST friend? Does the other person listen to you and share resposibilities with you. Can you REALLY say they will support you emotionally thru the absolute worst that could happen?
Or do you do your thing with your friends and they do their thing with their friends. does the other person go out till all hours, forget birthdays, not want to do family get togethers, do you not share the same views about money, household chores, child raising?
I met him in high school. Had to sit beside him and his buddies in class. He was pissing me off and I thought ';UGH! I can't believe I'm going to marry this guy!'; And of course, being 14 and all it was the weirdest thing I had ever thought, especially considering I never expected I would ever date anyone let alone marry somebody. 8 years later and we're engaged, go figure.
He told me, years later, that he thought something similar about marrying me, when we met. Weird huh?
How do I know now that he is still the one?
We have the same (or similar) goals in life, we want the same things and to live in the same place. We're both educationally and artistically driven people, interested in arts, design, music, etc. We can be around each other almost 24/7 and still have things to talk about. He's kind, and will do anything to make me happy. And we've learned how to fight together in a non-destructive matter. And there are a million other reasons why but I figure I've given you enough!
You can always be yourself....goof off, be you. Never worry about being made fun of or teased...not in a harsh way anyhow. Someone you know that you CAN'T see your life without.
when you meet that person...you JUST know. Without a doubt in your mind. The slightest thought of them not ever being there again, breaks your heart and can bring you to tears.
there's so many ways that you know you can't list them all....but when that person walks into your life....you could name them all like you've known all along what you were looking for..
We have been together for over 4 years. Every time the phone rings or he walks through the door, I still get butterflies in my stomach and my heart pounds.
If you cannot imagine your life without him/her, you get butterflies every time he/she calls or walk through the door, you miss them when they are gone, plus so much more.
As the saying goes ';They complete you!';. You are not whole without him/her.
you really do just know. I know its not exactly what you want to hear because you want a simple cut and dry answer but there just isn't one. typically they are easy to talk to, love you for you, etc. seriously you just know when its right there is no magical answer to let you know.
You wouldn't have to ask yourself that. You would just know. It feel likes heaven when you guys are together and hell when you are apart. You would share some of the same dreams, and goals. This person would bring out the best you.
I don't think you can every really truly ';Know';. To me, wanting to always be with him and do everything together and just having a good time together no matter what it is yall are doing.
He my best friend my lover. I can talk to him about anything and he can talk to me about anything. Its just a feeling of knowing I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. The push and the shove.
Because even when I've had the worst day, he's there. Even when I look like hell he thinks I'm beautiful. And when I'm pissy and mean he still kisses me a again and again. I know because my heart beats for him.
Here is how I knew...if we had an argument and I got really mad at him I never worried that he would up and leave me...I knew that he would still be here the next morning and that he would love me just as much...
You feel it, thats all you just feel it.
If you have to ask, it's not right.
you just know its hard to explain but yah you just know
Hard to explain, but simply - you just know.To all the married couples or engaged, or about to be engaged...?
When you're first falling in love with each other, there's this sense that they're perfect for you and complete you. You're excited to be with them and then depressed to be away from them.
I think the real test of a relationship comes after that point though. The people I've known who got divorced went through that stuff at the beginning of the relationship, but then after a year or two of being together they were no longer really happy with being in the relationship.
When it's the one, you just have this strong friendship that remains between you even after you've been together a while. It's just your best friend, the person you're closest to who you can be yourself around. You know you can count on them to always be there and take care of you, and you want to be there to take care of them.
Love is a choice. There is no such thing as the ';one';. You click with some people, and are willing to make a life time devotion to others. If you are lucky enough to find someone you love, and get along with well enough, and both chose to make it work, then you are set. I have been with a wonderful man since I was 14, and we are getting married in a year from now. We compromise, have great communication, and have such deep desires for one another, we will last until we die. If you chose to love someone, and make an everlasting commitment, then it will last.
This is how you know..
*Your fiance(e) is your best friend
*You can be yourself around him/her (naked, without make-up, smelly, ugly, etc.)
*They have been there for you no matter what
*When there is a problem they are willing to help you and work WITH YOU
*He/she always has you in their heart (calls you, texts, emails)
*he/she is the first person you think about when you wake up
*you wanna spend EVERY SECOND together
*If you were to lose your job he/she would be suppportive and understanding
*you never disrespect each other (physically, emotionally, cheating, EVER)
*When you think of your future, you only see your self with that person
*thinking about your love makes you cry
*you would give anything to be with him/her
I can seriously go on forever!!!!
do they respect you? are they your BEST friend? Does the other person listen to you and share resposibilities with you. Can you REALLY say they will support you emotionally thru the absolute worst that could happen?
Or do you do your thing with your friends and they do their thing with their friends. does the other person go out till all hours, forget birthdays, not want to do family get togethers, do you not share the same views about money, household chores, child raising?
I met him in high school. Had to sit beside him and his buddies in class. He was pissing me off and I thought ';UGH! I can't believe I'm going to marry this guy!'; And of course, being 14 and all it was the weirdest thing I had ever thought, especially considering I never expected I would ever date anyone let alone marry somebody. 8 years later and we're engaged, go figure.
He told me, years later, that he thought something similar about marrying me, when we met. Weird huh?
How do I know now that he is still the one?
We have the same (or similar) goals in life, we want the same things and to live in the same place. We're both educationally and artistically driven people, interested in arts, design, music, etc. We can be around each other almost 24/7 and still have things to talk about. He's kind, and will do anything to make me happy. And we've learned how to fight together in a non-destructive matter. And there are a million other reasons why but I figure I've given you enough!
You can always be yourself....goof off, be you. Never worry about being made fun of or teased...not in a harsh way anyhow. Someone you know that you CAN'T see your life without.
when you meet that person...you JUST know. Without a doubt in your mind. The slightest thought of them not ever being there again, breaks your heart and can bring you to tears.
there's so many ways that you know you can't list them all....but when that person walks into your life....you could name them all like you've known all along what you were looking for..
We have been together for over 4 years. Every time the phone rings or he walks through the door, I still get butterflies in my stomach and my heart pounds.
If you cannot imagine your life without him/her, you get butterflies every time he/she calls or walk through the door, you miss them when they are gone, plus so much more.
As the saying goes ';They complete you!';. You are not whole without him/her.
you really do just know. I know its not exactly what you want to hear because you want a simple cut and dry answer but there just isn't one. typically they are easy to talk to, love you for you, etc. seriously you just know when its right there is no magical answer to let you know.
You wouldn't have to ask yourself that. You would just know. It feel likes heaven when you guys are together and hell when you are apart. You would share some of the same dreams, and goals. This person would bring out the best you.
I don't think you can every really truly ';Know';. To me, wanting to always be with him and do everything together and just having a good time together no matter what it is yall are doing.
He my best friend my lover. I can talk to him about anything and he can talk to me about anything. Its just a feeling of knowing I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. The push and the shove.
Because even when I've had the worst day, he's there. Even when I look like hell he thinks I'm beautiful. And when I'm pissy and mean he still kisses me a again and again. I know because my heart beats for him.
Here is how I knew...if we had an argument and I got really mad at him I never worried that he would up and leave me...I knew that he would still be here the next morning and that he would love me just as much...
You feel it, thats all you just feel it.
If you have to ask, it's not right.
you just know its hard to explain but yah you just know
Is it hard for couples to stay together when one goes to college?
it's hard, but it's not impossible!Is it hard for couples to stay together when one goes to college?
Its hard - my boyfriend went to college in a diff state - we never broke up - we just kinda started doing things with our friends - we both ended up marrying other people - and now..... 25 years later - we are finally back together.
yes - its difficult - but, you can do it ----If you both have your minds set on it- if one doesn't..it won't work.Is it hard for couples to stay together when one goes to college?
yes.........
thats all I have to say :)
If you're married, no. If you're just dating, then yes. It also depends on if they are going to be living on or near campus, and the other person isn't around. If that's the case it's almost impossible. They will be exposed to so many new people and activities that it would be a shame for them to not experience it. I'd say if you're just dating, then break it off when they go, they may not like what they find and want to start dating you again. College is much more than just classes, it's when a lot of people really ';find'; themselves.
It is diffucult, but is possible.
It just takes a lot of work on BOTH parties!
Its hard - my boyfriend went to college in a diff state - we never broke up - we just kinda started doing things with our friends - we both ended up marrying other people - and now..... 25 years later - we are finally back together.
yes - its difficult - but, you can do it ----If you both have your minds set on it- if one doesn't..it won't work.Is it hard for couples to stay together when one goes to college?
yes.........
thats all I have to say :)
If you're married, no. If you're just dating, then yes. It also depends on if they are going to be living on or near campus, and the other person isn't around. If that's the case it's almost impossible. They will be exposed to so many new people and activities that it would be a shame for them to not experience it. I'd say if you're just dating, then break it off when they go, they may not like what they find and want to start dating you again. College is much more than just classes, it's when a lot of people really ';find'; themselves.
It is diffucult, but is possible.
It just takes a lot of work on BOTH parties!
How often do married couples watch porn together? How much is too much?
Never if you know anything about keeping a strong emotionally connected marriage books do just as well and I do not mean porn I mean educational books. Porn is very disrespectful to women and if you want your man/woman to get obcessed with this trash.
Porn kills relationships should be banned worldwide.How often do married couples watch porn together? How much is too much?
In response to Owen E, I request you one thing, and that is for the location of his pussy-*** self so I can come to your house, and on the behalf of men everywhere publicly ';revoke'; your balls with a rusty butter knife. Also, I Banged Your Wife, How's that for a relationship killer, you disgust me.
How often do married couples watch porn together? How much is too much?
if you feel like it then do it there isnt a too much its your relationship dont compatre it to other people's.
Too much is whatever amount makes a person uncomfortable.
It's entirely individual.
Happily married couples do not do this. The wife should be educating the husband on how degrading porn is to women, and that women are to be cherished and respected.
i'm not married so i'm not sure but i think that too much is when you need to watch porn or use the extras to have sex, you and your partner are no longer the only thing you need in the sexual relationship.
It depends on everybody taste.
I guess it depends on the people if their both comfertable doing it together then however often they want to. Me and hubby watch mabey once a month
i tried the porn thing, doesn't work out that well. i mean you do get to fantasizing a bit about the girls on that porn, well, it's rather abstract, but i think it's more offensive than anything to that other person.
porn just isn't something that you can share between two people i don't think. i can't speak for other men; but there is something about the voyeuristic aspect of it, but i don't think it belongs in the marriage.
every once in a blue moon I'll bring it up and try to go back to it, particularly if it's in your face, like on PPV or perhaps someone is selling it, like walking past a club, eg. funny thing is, the one time i was in a position to go into the club, and i went ahead with it, i couldn't stay in there, knowing that she was outside.
she seemed to be OK with it, i truly think that she was, but it wasn't like, if i were alone and could have spent hours and blown a lot of money.
some relationships just can't withstand people enjoying things together, i think that's why a lot of relationships don't withstand threesomes; i couldn't enjoy it, be paranoid wondering what she's thinking, too scared to do anything.
the funny thing is, she probably thinks i spend time and money with it when she isn't around, or would, but i can't really anymore. i don't do much anymore than i used to, if you want to be completely honest; either i'm settling down into this relationship or are just loosing interest in sexual stuff or something.
When your sitting at a resteraunt betting on which couples are going to start doing it on the table with the hot waitress, thats when its too much porn.
We have mirrors in the bedroom, so the ';porn'; we watch together is us. I may buy him a video camera for Christmas this year, so he can watch us even when I'm not there. Does that count?
He does watch porn when we can't be together, or he calls me and we do it over the phone. Myself, porn doesn't interest me - it's usually too much girl-on-girl and anal 'action' for my taste.
I thought marriage was supposed to be ';sacred';??????
I mean, why get married????
No, I am not married, but when I do, I will save all my sexual needs for my husband alone, thank you very much!
The priviledge of a sexual union between two married people are for them to share ALONE, together...once you start lusting after others, you have let others into this special union. Its not an ';anything goes'; just because you are married.....if the union of marriage is so damn special, then so should ALL OF GOD'S COMMANDMENTS! You cannot just pick and choose which of God's words you wish to follow...it doesn't work that way.
Porn kills relationships should be banned worldwide.How often do married couples watch porn together? How much is too much?
In response to Owen E, I request you one thing, and that is for the location of his pussy-*** self so I can come to your house, and on the behalf of men everywhere publicly ';revoke'; your balls with a rusty butter knife. Also, I Banged Your Wife, How's that for a relationship killer, you disgust me.
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How often do married couples watch porn together? How much is too much?
if you feel like it then do it there isnt a too much its your relationship dont compatre it to other people's.
Too much is whatever amount makes a person uncomfortable.
It's entirely individual.
Happily married couples do not do this. The wife should be educating the husband on how degrading porn is to women, and that women are to be cherished and respected.
i'm not married so i'm not sure but i think that too much is when you need to watch porn or use the extras to have sex, you and your partner are no longer the only thing you need in the sexual relationship.
It depends on everybody taste.
I guess it depends on the people if their both comfertable doing it together then however often they want to. Me and hubby watch mabey once a month
i tried the porn thing, doesn't work out that well. i mean you do get to fantasizing a bit about the girls on that porn, well, it's rather abstract, but i think it's more offensive than anything to that other person.
porn just isn't something that you can share between two people i don't think. i can't speak for other men; but there is something about the voyeuristic aspect of it, but i don't think it belongs in the marriage.
every once in a blue moon I'll bring it up and try to go back to it, particularly if it's in your face, like on PPV or perhaps someone is selling it, like walking past a club, eg. funny thing is, the one time i was in a position to go into the club, and i went ahead with it, i couldn't stay in there, knowing that she was outside.
she seemed to be OK with it, i truly think that she was, but it wasn't like, if i were alone and could have spent hours and blown a lot of money.
some relationships just can't withstand people enjoying things together, i think that's why a lot of relationships don't withstand threesomes; i couldn't enjoy it, be paranoid wondering what she's thinking, too scared to do anything.
the funny thing is, she probably thinks i spend time and money with it when she isn't around, or would, but i can't really anymore. i don't do much anymore than i used to, if you want to be completely honest; either i'm settling down into this relationship or are just loosing interest in sexual stuff or something.
When your sitting at a resteraunt betting on which couples are going to start doing it on the table with the hot waitress, thats when its too much porn.
We have mirrors in the bedroom, so the ';porn'; we watch together is us. I may buy him a video camera for Christmas this year, so he can watch us even when I'm not there. Does that count?
He does watch porn when we can't be together, or he calls me and we do it over the phone. Myself, porn doesn't interest me - it's usually too much girl-on-girl and anal 'action' for my taste.
I thought marriage was supposed to be ';sacred';??????
I mean, why get married????
No, I am not married, but when I do, I will save all my sexual needs for my husband alone, thank you very much!
The priviledge of a sexual union between two married people are for them to share ALONE, together...once you start lusting after others, you have let others into this special union. Its not an ';anything goes'; just because you are married.....if the union of marriage is so damn special, then so should ALL OF GOD'S COMMANDMENTS! You cannot just pick and choose which of God's words you wish to follow...it doesn't work that way.
If your home was a UK guest house - would you accept gay couples?
Just getting an opinion on the new law thats coming that means you must allow them to share a room....If your home was a UK guest house - would you accept gay couples?
Why not? We need to accept that in the present day that there are gay couples. We get a smacked wrist for discrimination against immigrants so we should get the same for discriminating against same sex couples.If your home was a UK guest house - would you accept gay couples?
As long as they pay....
YES WHY NOT THERE MONEY IS AS GOOD AS ANYONE ELSES
Yeah sure I would. As long as i didn't hear them.....
yeah of course, I'm gay and havent been refused from a hotel/guest house with my partner yet, theres a lot to be said for the pink pound.
Yes.
Can't see it being any different from accepting anyone else. Doesn't matter in the slightest.
Hope this helped.
Even if not law, I would. Business people ought not judge their customers. If one opens their home as a guest house, then it is a business.
--That Cheeky Lad
As long as they pay, whats the problem?
I wouldn't want heterosexuals spunking everywhere in my guesthouse room.. :~(
well ye why not its none of our business who shares a room really is it
Yep. They would make the same amount of mess as a straight couple.
Max you are definately gay!!! People are people are people it doesn't matter whether they are gay, lesbian. black. white. midgets, nazis as long as they can pay and behave accordingly I'd accept them.
If they were paying I would even accept Jordan and Peter Andre, or Al Queida.
What possible reasons could there be for denying gay couples a room anyway - it's offensive ? What might they do that would cause them to be banned anyway ?
they are people just like everyone else ..
and so long as they are a paying customer .. why not?
Yes, I think they have the same rights as hetrosexual couples!
er--why not? don't understand the question
as long as i couldn't hear them banging the bedpost against the wall and moaning, ewww!applying makeup
Why not? We need to accept that in the present day that there are gay couples. We get a smacked wrist for discrimination against immigrants so we should get the same for discriminating against same sex couples.If your home was a UK guest house - would you accept gay couples?
As long as they pay....
YES WHY NOT THERE MONEY IS AS GOOD AS ANYONE ELSES
Yeah sure I would. As long as i didn't hear them.....
yeah of course, I'm gay and havent been refused from a hotel/guest house with my partner yet, theres a lot to be said for the pink pound.
Yes.
Can't see it being any different from accepting anyone else. Doesn't matter in the slightest.
Hope this helped.
Even if not law, I would. Business people ought not judge their customers. If one opens their home as a guest house, then it is a business.
--That Cheeky Lad
As long as they pay, whats the problem?
I wouldn't want heterosexuals spunking everywhere in my guesthouse room.. :~(
well ye why not its none of our business who shares a room really is it
Yep. They would make the same amount of mess as a straight couple.
Max you are definately gay!!! People are people are people it doesn't matter whether they are gay, lesbian. black. white. midgets, nazis as long as they can pay and behave accordingly I'd accept them.
If they were paying I would even accept Jordan and Peter Andre, or Al Queida.
What possible reasons could there be for denying gay couples a room anyway - it's offensive ? What might they do that would cause them to be banned anyway ?
they are people just like everyone else ..
and so long as they are a paying customer .. why not?
Yes, I think they have the same rights as hetrosexual couples!
er--why not? don't understand the question
as long as i couldn't hear them banging the bedpost against the wall and moaning, ewww!
We are going to goa and want to make frnds with couples any one coming their in next two /three days.?
um... whats goa?We are going to goa and want to make frnds with couples any one coming their in next two /three days.?
wellcome we are already here we can hav a good enjoymentWe are going to goa and want to make frnds with couples any one coming their in next two /three days.?
umm what?
wellcome we are already here we can hav a good enjoymentWe are going to goa and want to make frnds with couples any one coming their in next two /three days.?
umm what?
Why has my married couples allowance almost halved for 2009 /2010 ?
Maybe because of the (economy) recession.
Everyone is feeling the bite.Why has my married couples allowance almost halved for 2009 /2010 ?
Be thankful you've still got one...under 60s don't get a married person's allowance...it was scrapped to throw money at unmarried mothers who churn out illigitemate sprogs left, right and centre. This Labour government is undermining the marriage institution....Why has my married couples allowance almost halved for 2009 /2010 ?
i didnt even know they still have those....be thankful for yours as someone else said cuz some ppl dont even get theirs anymore.
Good day to you!
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Everyone is feeling the bite.Why has my married couples allowance almost halved for 2009 /2010 ?
Be thankful you've still got one...under 60s don't get a married person's allowance...it was scrapped to throw money at unmarried mothers who churn out illigitemate sprogs left, right and centre. This Labour government is undermining the marriage institution....Why has my married couples allowance almost halved for 2009 /2010 ?
i didnt even know they still have those....be thankful for yours as someone else said cuz some ppl dont even get theirs anymore.
Good day to you!
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Are there any married couples that live under the same roof but lead seperate lives?
Around which time did you start driffting apart?Are there any married couples that live under the same roof but lead seperate lives?
LOL, with half of all marriages getting divorced i think it is pretty common to live with an emotional stranger.
I think people should get to know each other and live together for a while before deciding to marry.
I believe the drifting occurs around year 3, when the ';fuzzy'; love feeling starts to fade away and reality sets in.Are there any married couples that live under the same roof but lead seperate lives?
Yes, most of us...and we come together in the evening hours when time is right for the couples time of day. So to speak. Often married couples have different lives during the day, but that doesn't mean separate all. Both have to work on the marriage to keep the fire lit and keep the flame going. Most of the time it is the wife that creates the mood for an escape of the day's doldrum duties. Either set aside some time together, by candlelit bath for 2, or a walk in the park and hold hands and remember what brought the 2 of you together. Talk about the places that remind you both of happier times. Usually that is all it takes to rekindle good feelings. Don't give up the ship, and don't shoot yourself in the foot either. Be patient with each other, and not judgemental. Good Luck
in about year 3 of 15.
Lack of communication, stemming from both of us having been abused emotionally as children, leading to conflict avoidance rather than conflict resolution.
A healthy couple wants to be together and do the same things together; but also has some quality alone-time too.
yeah i can feel it because we had a baby in jan and I've been busy looking after her more than looking after marriage but we've maintained caring for each other and i'm starting to feel more like myself again now. it's funny that you can feel it happening and it's all so unspoken though even though we never meant to drift this way. We don't want to be ships in the night - i fell in love with this person, completely, %26amp; I know having a baby can do this, but I know the time's right for us both to have our own dates again without our princess!
My parents have been like that for as long as I can remember. They have separate bedrooms, have different friends and they barely spend any time together.
Been married 7years in aug. started drifting apart 3years ago and the gap just keeps getting wider. Been together march was 11 years 2 beautiful girls. Keep it movin girl/guy life's too short!
Are there any that don't?
We drifted apart when gaming became more important than real life.
Sounds like my in-laws! I think it is very sad. Hubby said that it started in the late 1970's.
i thought that's what being married was all about.
LOL, with half of all marriages getting divorced i think it is pretty common to live with an emotional stranger.
I think people should get to know each other and live together for a while before deciding to marry.
I believe the drifting occurs around year 3, when the ';fuzzy'; love feeling starts to fade away and reality sets in.Are there any married couples that live under the same roof but lead seperate lives?
Yes, most of us...and we come together in the evening hours when time is right for the couples time of day. So to speak. Often married couples have different lives during the day, but that doesn't mean separate all. Both have to work on the marriage to keep the fire lit and keep the flame going. Most of the time it is the wife that creates the mood for an escape of the day's doldrum duties. Either set aside some time together, by candlelit bath for 2, or a walk in the park and hold hands and remember what brought the 2 of you together. Talk about the places that remind you both of happier times. Usually that is all it takes to rekindle good feelings. Don't give up the ship, and don't shoot yourself in the foot either. Be patient with each other, and not judgemental. Good Luck
in about year 3 of 15.
Lack of communication, stemming from both of us having been abused emotionally as children, leading to conflict avoidance rather than conflict resolution.
A healthy couple wants to be together and do the same things together; but also has some quality alone-time too.
yeah i can feel it because we had a baby in jan and I've been busy looking after her more than looking after marriage but we've maintained caring for each other and i'm starting to feel more like myself again now. it's funny that you can feel it happening and it's all so unspoken though even though we never meant to drift this way. We don't want to be ships in the night - i fell in love with this person, completely, %26amp; I know having a baby can do this, but I know the time's right for us both to have our own dates again without our princess!
My parents have been like that for as long as I can remember. They have separate bedrooms, have different friends and they barely spend any time together.
Been married 7years in aug. started drifting apart 3years ago and the gap just keeps getting wider. Been together march was 11 years 2 beautiful girls. Keep it movin girl/guy life's too short!
Are there any that don't?
We drifted apart when gaming became more important than real life.
Sounds like my in-laws! I think it is very sad. Hubby said that it started in the late 1970's.
i thought that's what being married was all about.
Good Christian devotionals for couples?
My boyfriend and I are doing a devotional right now, but it's almost done. Anyone know any good devotionals for us to read based on our relationship and how we can grow for God? We don't want anything that is based on getting married or anything, though.Good Christian devotionals for couples?
there is no god i dont care. tell those people thatGood Christian devotionals for couples?
its not exactly a devotional but its great help! its called Love and Respect my parents use it and make me nd my brother watch it too
I hope you're not have premarital sex.
there is no god i dont care. tell those people thatGood Christian devotionals for couples?
its not exactly a devotional but its great help! its called Love and Respect my parents use it and make me nd my brother watch it too
I hope you're not have premarital sex.
Who sings the reggae cover of ';D'yer Mak'er'; in Couples Retreat?
I'm pretty sure its ';Me Love'; by Sean Kingston.
Does anyone know some relationship exercises for married couples?
a web site would be nice if not just tell me what you do know and please none of those dumb survey or cosmo compatibility tests.Does anyone know some relationship exercises for married couples?
dr. phil books are very effective. i promise. they offer exercises too.
http://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Rescu鈥?/a>Does anyone know some relationship exercises for married couples?
I have never heard of relationship exercises, but I do know that you can do certain things in order to maintaina good marriage.
1. Eat at the table - We try to have a nice meal (At home) with candles and bottle of wine at least once a week and we get dressed up for it. We spend the time catching up with what each other has been up to and just chatting to each other. We have been married 8 years and have one daughter and this quality time makes all the difference.
2. Plan your future - When you sit down and talk about what you both want out of life, plan a journey that involves both your ambitions and aspirations, then set timed goals.
3. Hold Hands - Holding hands shows people that you are A unit. It also makes you both feel good and shows that you are proud to be in love!
There are some new relationship BOARD GAMES that are available on the market which might help improve communication skills between you are your husband. I saw them advertised on an internet site, but don't recall the names of any of them. Try doing a Google search to find out more.
I'll give you a good relationship excercise. You might think I'm full of crap, but it either works, or you kill each other.
Go canoeing. It will show you who is stubborn, who thinks they decide where the relationship is going and if you are struggling against each other. When you struggle against each other, you soon learn you get nowhere. When you get in sync, you cruise down the river!!
Good Luck!
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dr. phil books are very effective. i promise. they offer exercises too.
http://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Rescu鈥?/a>Does anyone know some relationship exercises for married couples?
I have never heard of relationship exercises, but I do know that you can do certain things in order to maintaina good marriage.
1. Eat at the table - We try to have a nice meal (At home) with candles and bottle of wine at least once a week and we get dressed up for it. We spend the time catching up with what each other has been up to and just chatting to each other. We have been married 8 years and have one daughter and this quality time makes all the difference.
2. Plan your future - When you sit down and talk about what you both want out of life, plan a journey that involves both your ambitions and aspirations, then set timed goals.
3. Hold Hands - Holding hands shows people that you are A unit. It also makes you both feel good and shows that you are proud to be in love!
There are some new relationship BOARD GAMES that are available on the market which might help improve communication skills between you are your husband. I saw them advertised on an internet site, but don't recall the names of any of them. Try doing a Google search to find out more.
I'll give you a good relationship excercise. You might think I'm full of crap, but it either works, or you kill each other.
Go canoeing. It will show you who is stubborn, who thinks they decide where the relationship is going and if you are struggling against each other. When you struggle against each other, you soon learn you get nowhere. When you get in sync, you cruise down the river!!
Good Luck!
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Thursday, January 21, 2010
What is the most common way for married couples to own title to real estate (if they don't have a trust yet?)
One of Tenancy in Common
Joint Tenancy
Community Property
Community Property with Right of SurvivorshipWhat is the most common way for married couples to own title to real estate (if they don't have a trust yet?)
This depemds on mhat you want to do and have happen if you die.
Joint Tennants... You die she/he gets your share. All parties own the whole. Can not be willed to another.
Most common is Joint TennantsWhat is the most common way for married couples to own title to real estate (if they don't have a trust yet?)
I must say that the best answer so far is from in_love (lol) :)..funny.
Joint Tenancy is the most common one. Below is a link to a site that has a pretty good chart about how you can hold title.
Joint Tenancy
Community Property
Community Property with Right of SurvivorshipWhat is the most common way for married couples to own title to real estate (if they don't have a trust yet?)
This depemds on mhat you want to do and have happen if you die.
Joint Tennants... You die she/he gets your share. All parties own the whole. Can not be willed to another.
Most common is Joint TennantsWhat is the most common way for married couples to own title to real estate (if they don't have a trust yet?)
I must say that the best answer so far is from in_love (lol) :)..funny.
Joint Tenancy is the most common one. Below is a link to a site that has a pretty good chart about how you can hold title.
What do ya'll think of bi-racial couples?
And do you think in a couple of years were all going to be mixed. I'm not agisnt bi-racial couples I find them intresting what do you think?What do ya'll think of bi-racial couples?
I'm in one so yes very interesting.What do ya'll think of bi-racial couples?
I'm all for it. I am white and my husband is black, we've been married 13 years and have 2 kids.
It doesn't really bother me. As long as everyone's happy and treated with respect by their partner.
I don't really think anything, even though I'm in one, I guess.
its their decision but I wouldnt do it..
The hubs is Puerto Rican and Basque and I'm Filipino, Chinese, and Spaniard. So we're super biracial! So I'm for it.
i think of them like i think of any other couple..we are already one race, mankind
love is blind
It's all good, my friend.
God, how are the racists going to survive when they can't tell us all apart, eh?
I think it is a good thing.
I'm in one so yes very interesting.What do ya'll think of bi-racial couples?
I'm all for it. I am white and my husband is black, we've been married 13 years and have 2 kids.
It doesn't really bother me. As long as everyone's happy and treated with respect by their partner.
I don't really think anything, even though I'm in one, I guess.
its their decision but I wouldnt do it..
The hubs is Puerto Rican and Basque and I'm Filipino, Chinese, and Spaniard. So we're super biracial! So I'm for it.
i think of them like i think of any other couple..we are already one race, mankind
love is blind
It's all good, my friend.
God, how are the racists going to survive when they can't tell us all apart, eh?
I think it is a good thing.
What's the least expensive romantic cruise for couples?
Carnival Cruise lines probably has the cheapest cruises in the States whenever you can get their promotional fares. Harbor cruises are much cheaper, but I don鈥檛 think that鈥檚 what you had in mind. Though if you are tight on the budget, a romantic city with harbor cruise isn't a bad idea. (New York, San Fran, etc.)What's the least expensive romantic cruise for couples?
Walt Disney Cruise.Just kidding it's expensive, and full of
spolid braty kids,and familes.What's the least expensive romantic cruise for couples?
take a nivce romantic walk
Walt Disney Cruise.Just kidding it's expensive, and full of
spolid braty kids,and familes.What's the least expensive romantic cruise for couples?
take a nivce romantic walk
Married Couples! How do you handle a long distance marriage relationship? [Overseas Jobs] Iraq from US states?
Most extremely high paying jobs are never close around your local area. But at extremely far away places, in this case overseas jobs in another country. But I was wondering how do you handle your wife/husband being so far away from you. Do yall guys ever get lovesick? What's the most concern when working at very far away places?Married Couples! How do you handle a long distance marriage relationship? [Overseas Jobs] Iraq from US states?
Webcams, long distance phone cards, letters, emails and a lot of missing the hell out of them,Married Couples! How do you handle a long distance marriage relationship? [Overseas Jobs] Iraq from US states?
my husband is often deployed. i got lovesick, missed him and struggled. however, trust is necessary for a long distance marriage, without it, it doesn't stand a chance.....thats one thing he has lost, so there isnt a way to deal with it now.
My husband just came back from a deployment a couple months ago and is deployed again in september. :( Its hard but the best thing we do is have faith . we send videos. gifts. and such things. you have to trust eachother or its over right then.
Webcams, long distance phone cards, letters, emails and a lot of missing the hell out of them,Married Couples! How do you handle a long distance marriage relationship? [Overseas Jobs] Iraq from US states?
my husband is often deployed. i got lovesick, missed him and struggled. however, trust is necessary for a long distance marriage, without it, it doesn't stand a chance.....thats one thing he has lost, so there isnt a way to deal with it now.
My husband just came back from a deployment a couple months ago and is deployed again in september. :( Its hard but the best thing we do is have faith . we send videos. gifts. and such things. you have to trust eachother or its over right then.
Should couples go to the adult/porn store together?
I think i'd be fun and something different to do, but my girlfriend isnt to keen on it. we've been dating over 4 years and love eachother. She has never been to an adult store. Not completely sure what we'd buy but maybe a video or toy...or both lol Any suggestions??Should couples go to the adult/porn store together?
Ah, it's overrated at best! There's really not much there that you couldn't recreate yourself at home, so save yourself the trip and money and do it yourself!Should couples go to the adult/porn store together?
i go with my guy to the porn shop. we go in and look at everything, feel the artificial parts and it's fun actually. we bought a toy and a dvd. maybe you could go by yourself and pick out a toy for her or a dvd to watch together. get her used to the idea of it. then when and if she wants to, go together.
If she isn't into it don't force her to go.
as long as neither of you do something that makes the other feel uncomfortable then alls cool!
me and my husband love going to the porn store! maybe she's just scared to go cuz that would make her naughty or a hooch or something. Some girls are just brougt up different. Sometimes they get jealous if they think you're checking out other girls, or that you'd want to be with another girl or something. maybe she doesn't want people she knows to see her there, go to one farther away maybe.
If both people are into that kind of thing it is fun and different
I have taken my wife there before. It is a great experience.
yea absolutely. pick out a new movie together. or pick out a new toy for her together. adult stores are a lot of fun for couples to shop at together.
Ah, it's overrated at best! There's really not much there that you couldn't recreate yourself at home, so save yourself the trip and money and do it yourself!Should couples go to the adult/porn store together?
i go with my guy to the porn shop. we go in and look at everything, feel the artificial parts and it's fun actually. we bought a toy and a dvd. maybe you could go by yourself and pick out a toy for her or a dvd to watch together. get her used to the idea of it. then when and if she wants to, go together.
If she isn't into it don't force her to go.
as long as neither of you do something that makes the other feel uncomfortable then alls cool!
me and my husband love going to the porn store! maybe she's just scared to go cuz that would make her naughty or a hooch or something. Some girls are just brougt up different. Sometimes they get jealous if they think you're checking out other girls, or that you'd want to be with another girl or something. maybe she doesn't want people she knows to see her there, go to one farther away maybe.
If both people are into that kind of thing it is fun and different
I have taken my wife there before. It is a great experience.
yea absolutely. pick out a new movie together. or pick out a new toy for her together. adult stores are a lot of fun for couples to shop at together.
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