If so what is the secret and can you give some adviseAre there any happily married couples?
biggest advise is make sure you remain friends and work at remaining lovers it is never easy but worth the effortAre there any happily married couples?
Always willing to give advice. One secret of happy marriage is communication: not the kind that says I will talk you listen - two way conversation. No secrets from each other, money or otherwise. Attempt to agree on everything, but if not agree to disagree. Before having children discuss child rearing procedures - everything must be clear on that point. Have no jealousy, trust each other 100%. Be willing to forgive - do it first whether you are right or not. Finally sex - be open and willing to try new things.
My parents are very happy couples, even my grandparents. I think the key is that you just have to be able to be yourself around each other, and if the other one doesn't accept it, the person isn't right for you. It might be hard when you first get married to get used to it and all, but after a few years, if you feel uncomfortable, it won't work out. For example, if there's something you feel like you can only do AFTER your husband leaves to work or wherever, then i might not be right. My parents and grandparents have nothing to hide, so they're just hapy together, and I KNOW for a fact thy will never get a divorce :)
I am happily married. I have a husband that I love and trust. He isn't the best at showing his feelings with romantic gestures, but we both know that he loves me, almost as much as our babies. Just keep in mind that every day is not perfect. You argue, but you get over it. I am usually over it in an hour or less. The important thing is don't say hurtful things that you'll regret. And don't believe in the movies, those people don't have the stress of kids, or bills influencing their lives. You don't need sex daily, or flowers or fancy things to have a happy marriage. And if it is an unhappy marriage, see what the both of you can do to improve it together. And I have hope that when the kids are all gone, our lives together will be much simpler and less stressful.
I am very happily married.
Secrets aren't secrets, just common sense. PUt your spouse first always. Chances are, he will naturally want to follow suit. My husband does this. I'll do nice things for him, he'll want to do them back.
Communicate. If there is a problem, talk about it. Don't yell and scream and cry or accuse. Be calm.
Keep the spark there. Try new sex things, surprise him.
If you think the realtionship is goign under, take control. Talk. I have said to my husband before, ';We've been so happy before, let's get back there.'; And we work on it and we are.
I am happily married! My parents are happily married and my grandparents are happily married.
Here's the advice my parents gave me when I got married: DATE your spouse! Just because you get married doesn't mean you stop dating. You still need to flirt and romance each other. Love only diminishes when you stop giving it. Love is a choice!
So my husband and I have a weekly date night. Every Friday night is just for us. Even if it's just a short date after the kids are in bed- we make sure to block time out for just the two of us every week to reconnect. It's the best advice I've ever heard. If you want something to last forever- you treat it differently- you make it your #1 priority. :)
im happily married! and have been for 6 and half years
there is no secret, you need to be compatible, love each other, be tolerant, give and take and have good communication and trust,
be prepared to work at it at times too. like every relationship, marriages change, they have ups and downs etc but as long as you dont give up at the first hurdle you will come out stronger!
im happily married each day i gain another day in my marriage together.the secret is communication,unconditional love,trust all the way,sacrifice,and two people actually wanting to be together forever and not for just kids,benefits,or cause they feel they have to be there.
Yes my husband and I happily married.He was my HS sweetheart i met him when I was 16 we married when i was 20 I'm now 44 it will be 25 yrs this Oct 6 . We have 3 kids. I find the secret to a happy marriage is Communication and trust. Yes we have had our ups and downs it wasn't always peaches and cream. But it was something we want so we worked hard at it.
We are.
It's the second time for each of us, his first was 16 yrs, mine was 24.
The biggest thing we both learned is this:
If there's an issue, DEAL with it immediately. Never ';assume'; the other knows what's bothering you, just bring it up, deal with it, compromise if necessary, then move on.
My ex would harbor resentment, letting issues fester in silence, and then completely blow over trivial stupid things. That will never happen with us!
Also, we laugh...a LOT! We crack jokes constantly, and find fun everywhere, even at Dollar Tree!
first answerer: im 28 and happily married. I have been married for 11 months and the key to any relationship has got to be to: love,listen,talk, trust and respect. in my opinion if there is none of these then theres no relationship
my husband and i are happily married. we have been married for almost 3 years. our relationship is not perfect though. you have to learn to work through the tough times together. plus, having God as the center of our marriage makes all the difference!
The secret was getting him to cut his mother out OUR life. There could only be one woman in his life, and that's me! I mean I wouldn't have minded her being around... but she just got to jealous over our relationship. And she always had to have his attention. It was pathetic!
Yes defiantly!!!
I don't think there is any BIG secret, just a bit of give n take and patience.
you must have been totally besotted at some point, try and work out whats changed??
good luck im sure you can revive the magic, x
Yes, my husband and I are happily married. The secret is communication and a balance of togetherness and independent activity.
My husband and I have been married for 241/2 years and the advice we can give you is to always talk through things, trust and be honest with each other.It seams to be working for us.Good Luck....
Communication, respect, love, trust, friendship.
When you do find the answer, feel free to let me. I thought I was the only one asking this question!!!
I'm not married, but the only happily married couples that I know are over 55.
sure- going on 35 years. My daughter is also happily married going on 4 years
I only know of one true happily married couple. I am happily single!
One here.
Consider each other, always.
never met one
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